@withifeoluwa Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for you
,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future
There is no sort of shaming that helps people. You only make thier insecurity worse. If you can't encourage someone to be better you certainly have no right to shame them for thier current situation. Broke shaming, fat shaming, etc
If you can't speak good, don't speak at all.