Hot Marriage

Our mission is to create resources that help couples win at marriage, and churches win at helping marriages

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The divorce rate among couples who pray together regularly is less than 1%

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It won't be long now!

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"When we see our marriage as something more than our own romance or our own ‘story,’ as a journey ‘on the way’ to holiness, then we focus less on small annoyances, changeable emotions, and the distractions of the world.”

-St. John Chrysostom

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How well are we communicating?

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"Marriage only works when it is the most important human relationship in our lives."

Jimmy Evans, The Four Laws of Love

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Let’s embrace this truth today:

I have the great privilege of being a life-long student of my spouse.
I have not learned everything there is to know about him/her.
Class is always in session, and I choose to enjoy the journey.

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Just another way that God is amazing within your marriage.
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When you have a disagreement, choose to be CURIOUS rather than CORRECT. It will ensure that the conflict draws you closer to each other as a result. Disagreements are opportunities to learn more about each other, which leads to deeper intimacy.

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Our full attention is a rare and priceless gift these days. Let’s give it to our spouse today.

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The majority of church-goers believe their church should do more for engaged and married couples

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Be thankful for your blessings today. Blessing #1...Your spouse. A wonderful expression of God’s love to you.

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The key to conflict resolution is not listening to respond, but listening to understand. When mutual understanding is achieved, the sting of an argument is removed.

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“Listening is an action; you have to commit to it. And you can’t do that if you don’t get out of your own head. If you stay inside yourself, the voice you hear will be your own, and not your loved one’s."

-John Gottman in his book, Eight Dates

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Pursuing intimacy with our spouse will always expose something in us that needs to change. It’s part of the journey. It must be embraced if true intimacy is going to be experienced.

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Happy is the man who finds a true friend, and far happier is he who finds that the true friend is his wife.

-Frank Schubert

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The first act of love is always the giving of attention. -Dallas Willard

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A hot marriage consists of two people who allow the fire of the Holy Spirit to burn away every impurity. Marriage is a transformative act.

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