"Get busy living or get busy dying." ~Shawshank Redemption | @illinois_alma grad | Wife, Mom, Foster care advocate | Cancer survivor | Sports fan | Truth Seeker
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I did a funeral for a man that had been married to his wife for 55 years. "It wasn't just any 55 years, it was 55 good years," his widow told me.
After the service I found myself standing alone at his casket along with his wife. She was trying to figure out how to say her last goodbye before they closed her husband's casket for the final time.
She looked at me, smiled and said, "He kissed me every night at bedtime and hugged me every morning when we got up. He faithfully sent me flowers, and still told me everyday that I was beautiful." I felt as if I was listening in on a private conversation as she continued to tell me, "He often called me Hazel." I asked how she got that nickname and she said, "My eyes are hazel, and he always told me how beautiful my eyes were." I smiled at her as my heart hurt for her.
It was then she continued to talk, but now she spoke to him and not to me. "Thank you for being so good to me," she said with tears and a smile, "I will miss you, and I will see you soon." She patted him on the hand, kissed him on the forehead and nodded to me and said softly, "Okay, I'm ready. Let's go."
As I drove to the cemetery to say a few last words for the family, I realized that I had been privileged to witness a very holy last moment between a husband and wife. I couldn't help but be thankful and inspired by this man who was no longer alive.
I sat for a moment by myself to collect my thoughts ... and then I prayed, "Lord, please raise up more men who will hug their wife every morning, kiss her every night and remind her every day that she's beautiful."
~Trey
Bret Arnold Bielema lost his father, Arnold “Arnie” Bielema, on October 25. He missed practice this week to attend the services.
If you know Bret, you’ve heard him talk about how meaningful names are. He carries his dad’s name as his own middle name.
Fittingly, on Dads Day in Champaign, his team won their fourth straight to become bowl eligible for the third consecutive season.
College football is the best.
There a thousands of American bodies buried all over this planet that gave their lives so you and I could live in freedom, and VOTE. Do you duty, stand in the line, and VOTE! Take your spouse, your buddies, your neighbors, the grandparents...and make your voice count. Godspeed!!
Clergy sexual abuse is not an affair; pedophilia is not about struggling with difficult circumstances; molesting adolescents is not about a struggling marriage.
Such things must be called by their right names—the abuser needs to be held responsible for their abusive behavior.
One day you’ll realize that your mom wasn’t decorating the house for Christmas because she had extra time.
She was doing it because she wanted you to have memories.
The lights. The cookies. The same decorations every year.
All that effort was love.