ladies until that man expresses his desire to pursue you. he is the homie. nothing more. so don't allow your fantasies to build false hope. stop emotionally committing yourself to a man who hasn't verbally expressed his intenions to emotionally commit to you
The way y’all go out of your way to not respond to people’s messages and avoid watching their stories on IG is crazy. Use your words and tell them you don’t want to talk lol it’s not hard