Steve.TheBarber💈

Frontend Developer | Professional Mobile Barber.

[Joyfultips 🍏💥 @joyfultips]

Thank you @DaniCarvajal92 the best right back ever

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[Household of David @HODChurchNG]

As our custom, Pastor Desola Ademuwagun led us in worship, preparing our hearts for the word.

#HouseholdofDavid #SureMercies

[🐬 @triplexdshott]

until it happens to you, you will think you are very careful, very responsible, very smart, very religious, very mature, very private, very etc.

[MrBanks💰 @Mrbankstips]

People debate what “life-changing money” looks like.

₦50M? Obviously life-changing.

₦10M? Still life-changing.

₦5M? Absolutely.

₦500K? For the right person, yes.

Here’s what most won’t admit, any money you don’t currently have can change your life. The number was never the variable. Your situation is.

A man drowning in ₦2M of debt doesn’t need ₦50M to breathe again. He needs ₦2,000,001.

₦500K to someone earning ₦80,000/month is over 6 months salary. That same ₦500K to someone earning ₦5M/month is a rounding error. Same money. Completely different lives.

This is why people get a windfall and go broke within a year. They got the money but never built the mind for it. Life-changing money without life-changing thinking just accelerates the life you already had, good or bad.

What actually makes money life-changing isn’t the amount. It’s whether it removes a constraint you’ve been stuck behind. Whether it buys back time you’ve been selling too cheap. Whether it opens one door that permanently shifts your trajectory.
₦300,000 to the right person at the right time has paid for a skill that tripled their income, covered shop rent while someone built their first business, bought goods that started a distribution chain.

The biggest mistake you would make is waiting for a “big enough” number before they start treating money seriously. “When I get ₦10M I’ll invest.” “When I hit ₦50M I’ll start building.” That’s a poor mindset wearing a future disguise.

The person who knows what to do with ₦500K will know what to do with ₦50M.

The person who wastes ₦500K will waste ₦50M, just louder and faster.

Stop arguing about what amount changes lives. Start asking yourself one honest question:
If the money you needed showed up in your account tomorrow, would you know exactly what to do with it?

If the answer is no, that’s your actual problem. Fix that first. The money will follow.

[Non-Fungible Frank @frank_ikemefune]

Classism in Nigeria is just poverty with a microphone..

[highFashion @rahman_jago_]

Seeing people rewarding themselves is not an invitation to ask them for money.
Let them enjoy the things they worked hard for.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

In addendum, look at the Nigerian men that left 9ja and have dated foreigners and you them cursing their 9ja experiences, because for the first time, they realized 9ja relationship was shortening their life span. In a working system where you earn well, the woman is vehemently against you solely running the home financially and want to do her part happily because she was raised with financial responsibility and the value of money. Yet, this does not impact on submission.

You, in a terribly poor economy that is still crippling faster than Man City's season, would want to carry all the bills 100% even if you have to die doing it, while you have a woman cheering with joy that she should not contribute her part financially to the home, and see it as a favour when she chooses to do so, while earning the right to disrespect you for even doing it. Both you and the woman cannot see this is witchcraft, be ause you are both foolish. You'll rather struggle and ask for help outside than sensibly see the person you call other half (some even say better half) actively take part in financially running the home.

You're tying your manhood to your capacity to carry the bills 100% in a country where over 90% are poor, over 90% do not have N500k in their account, where minimum wage is N33k and where average graduate salary is N80k a month. You people are stupid, and you're still marrying witches. I assure these women know they are witches. Since there are women that know what to do and do it, it is not a female behaviour to be a witch. Your own partner is just a witch to YOU.

[Ette Okon👴🏾 @ThinktwiceDark1]

-You wake up by 6am everyday. Tired because you slept really late.
-Go to an office where your supervisor has left you four disrespectful mails to start your day with.
-You have to skip breakfast else you’ll go broke.

All… for peanuts on the 28th.

You will def not give 100%

[YOM🗣️ @ThaBoyYom]

smh

[feyisayo 💸 @feyiszn]

Unfortunately your ability to move on is dependent on how high your self-esteem and self-respect is

[Dear Son. @DearS_o_n]

Dear son,

[Olúwamáyọ̀wá @MehyorOfficial]

Don’t fall in love with me o, I no be Pablo o

I don’t do fraud and i cannot take you to any fancy restaurant or buy you hair and iPhone

All I can offer you is sweet loving, spag and cold hollandia

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Men who do not want a woman richer than them have a valid argument for it. They have seen how women treat boyfriends and husbands they are richer than. Even some women admit they would lose respect for a man they earn more than.

Difference between me and them is that, you cannot disrespect me because of money. Any man that is suffering from his partner because of financial predicament, chose to suffer. One step out of character, I'll fling you away.

Shebi money is your problem, go away and enjoy your money. It is that simple. I have zero desire to put up an appearance by covering for your bad behaviour. You're not covering for me by being financially responsible. It is your family.

Again, allow your woman be a part of the relationship financially, emotionally, sexually, mentally and all. She must be 100% in like you. From the get go, it has to be a relationship. It takes 2 people to relate. It is a different thing if she doesn't work.

"My money is my money, your money is our money" is not a relationship. When your money finishes, she will find another person to play your role becauseshe is not used to investing herself in the relationship. Now you're under pressure and fearing another man will bend your wife or she will leave you. Allow her invest her essence into the relationship. It is the only way she will fight for it. People fight for their investment. ALWAYS.

Some of you would say women are more loyal to their feelings than your sacrifice. Where her money is, is where her feelings is. If the money is not in the relationship you share, you're dating yourself.

[Onile Olona. @alpontif]

If you have 5m, instead of buying a car for Bolt or Uber, join a Cooperative, pool 50m, buy an SDLG Wheeloader, use AFCTA to take it to Benin Republic or Ivory Coast. Per day hire rate of Wheeloader in Benin is 456k machine only. Use your sense.

[Ja Loka @_fels1]

Bro to bro: Take your financial life very seriously. Be overly frugal, mean if need be, and limit your wants. The world is very cruel to poor men.

[YH @Yemihazan]

This is what a podcast should look like, watch and grab knowledge.
Not every time BBL and silly gossips Bs

[N𝖔𝖙𝖔𝖗𝖎𝖔𝖚𝖘🥷🏾🦅 @Al_ameenX]

A 250k salary for a youth with no wife is no longer a thing. With this salary if you prioritize eating good and dressing nice you will be owing the bank before month end.

It’s insane

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Kindness isn't kindness if you expect a reward.
- Francis Underwood.

[THE KINE 🌕🖤 @asher_kine]

Today, we’re out in Jos, Plateau state Nigeria.