S. Barthell aka Barthell Cooks

Author of Women R Stupid & Men R the Reason Sex, Love & Pain: Methods II the MaDDness....now catering @Barthell_Cooks on IG

[S. Barthell aka Barthell Cooks @StevenABarthell]

3 days of 60° up north & ppl already outside dressed like winter ain’t just go to the car and grab something real quick

We have a sample of good weather just to see who is dumb enough to believe spring is around the corner when in reality it ain’t even left the house yet

[S. Barthell aka Barthell Cooks @StevenABarthell]

Most relationship problems aren’t caused by one person.

They’re caused by two people who benefit from the same toxic pattern, until one of them suddenly decides they’re tired of it.

That conversation makes people uncomfortable.

Love, Lust & Logic available on Amazon now

[S. Barthell aka Barthell Cooks @StevenABarthell]

Happy Birthday to my mom! had me at 19 and raised me by herself made sure I grew into a man who could stand on his own Now a grandmother to 6. A few years ago we almost lost her to a brain injury… but she’s still here, still fighting

Forever grateful for you, Mom. ❤️

[S. Barthell aka Barthell Cooks @StevenABarthell]

Today’s my mamas birthday! She said she spent it with @sherylunderwood

[S. Barthell aka Barthell Cooks @StevenABarthell]

Most dating conversations stay surface level. This book doesn’t. I’m looking for podcast hosts and book clubs ready to unpack real themes around attachment, emotional responsibility, and modern dating culture.

Let’s build a conversation that lasts longer than a viral clip.

[S. Barthell aka Barthell Cooks @StevenABarthell]

You didn’t ignore the red flags.
You negotiated with them.
Love, Lust & Logic — Out Now.

[S. Barthell aka Barthell Cooks @StevenABarthell]

If you had standards instead of feelings… would you still be heartbroken? 💣📖 #relationships #questionofthenight #LoveIslandAllStars #love #thinkaboutit

[S. Barthell aka Barthell Cooks @StevenABarthell]

From writing and publishing my own books…
to building brands
to catering events
to being featured on TV and radio
I’ve never waited for a seat at the table
I built my own
Different seasons Same discipline
Still growing Still creating Still evolving
The work speaks. 📚🎙️🍽️

[S. Barthell aka Barthell Cooks @StevenABarthell]

#LoveLustLogic #NewBook #Relationships #PersonalGrowth

[S. Barthell aka Barthell Cooks @StevenABarthell]

Dating is supposed to be fun.

Laugh. Vibe. See if you even like each other.

If every date feels stressful, it’s not because “dating is trash.” It’s because you’re trying to turn strangers into spouses by Week 2.

[S. Barthell aka Barthell Cooks @StevenABarthell]

Mike McDaniel is frustrating!!! The running game is working today and Tua isn’t!!!! Get into the red zone and they stop running yet again why?!!!?

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The clarity of #ANightmareOnElmSt in 4K makes me appreciate my favorite series so much more 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

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@itsmelolamarie

[S. Barthell aka Barthell Cooks @StevenABarthell]

#NewProfilePic been working very hard and I’m proud AF went from 263 to 223 in 7 months

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Sustaining this weight has been working 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[S. Barthell aka Barthell Cooks @StevenABarthell]

My pending divorce, former friendships, bad habits, bad decisions etc

You are really your biggest opposition in life….Until you master yourself, the same patterns keep coming back to teach you lessons

No matter how much you change or try to improve until you beat them

[S. Barthell aka Barthell Cooks @StevenABarthell]

Need a fucking drink!

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@DropDeadLoLa Happy Birthday lady...enjoy it little Miami

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@Victoria_Peach_ 😂😂😂