According to attachment theory, genuine love is reflected in how someone responds to your pain, not just your presence. When someone truly values your wellbeing, their deepest fear isn't losing access to you - it's causing you harm. But when someone only loves what you provide for them they fear losing their supply, not hurting your heart. This subtle difference reveals everything about whether you're loved for who you are or what you give. Notice which one keeps them awake at night
@OcasoenelMAR siempre he pensado que de lo mas triste es el lenguaje y el idioma que muere cuando dos personas terminan , los chistes internos , los apodos, el humor negro que manejen, las bromas que solo esa persona se deja hacer etc
Saying "I love you" and discussing a future with your partner, then abruptly leaving their life , it's one of the cruelest things you can do to another human being.
And no,your childhood trauma doesn't justify blindsiding someone who trusted you.
Married women on twitter be like oh noooooooooooooo my husband, who is not allowed to have sex with anyone else, wants to have sex with me in our marital bed tonight oh noooooooooooooo I need to start some discourse about how awful this is
If you want to understand men better, just look at all the movies they’ve made, books they’ve written, games they invent when they’re young, and video games they play as adults.
Almost every single one is about a young man being thrust into a position or situation he doesn’t know if he can overcome. Many times he actually believes he can’t, so he initially refuses the challenge. Reluctantly, he is forced out of the comfort of his home by an unlikely group of future friends or an imposing threat on his life or the life of the woman he loves.
In the end, he rises above, he wins, he conquers. He conquers first himself and then he conquers the threat.
Men are made for impossible situations and daring feats. They are born with a heroes heart. This is innate.
I’ve watched it myself in my husband as he figures out how to provide a desirable quality of life for his growing family. I’ve watched as he’s pursued that more and more aggressively over time. And I’m watching it again but in a different way with my son and the games he invents.
This is the heart that society is trying so hard to quash. And women are the ones who can help protect it…
Matthew McConaughey explains the difference between a nice guy and a good man
"A nice guy gets along. Yeah, I'll do that, sure. They don't necessarily have discernment or judgment, not sure what they stand for or against."
"A good man has ideals he stands for and stands against. When they're tested, a good man is not a nice guy."
"It doesn't mean you've got to be a dick. It means sometimes you go, this is for me and that is not. And if you trespass on me and my family, I will do my best to cause consequences."
@yeankhar hay tres tipos de sangre, la venosa, arterial y capilar, la capilar es la que sale cuando te cortas o raspas, la arterial la que tiene un flujo continuo, y la venosa es la que te comes golosa
DIDIDER DESCHAMPS: "El único penal polémico a Argentina fue el del partido contra Polonia y aún así fue errado".
"Argentina metió 15 goles en el Mundial y solo se metieron 4 penales, les anularon 3 goles en el primer partido y frente a Países Bajos le cobran una falta polémica sobre el final con 10 minutos añadidos, para mi exagerado el tiempo de adición".
"No entiendo a los que dicen que hubo ayuda a los argentinos en la final, mis jugadores y yo, no nos quejamos del penal porque sabíamos que sí lo era. Solo me queda felicitar a Argentina y Francia que nos dieron la mejor final en la historia de los mundiales".