Unrelated but I remember when I wanted to end my relationship 2 years ago and people kept telling me there’s nothing out there, that I should just stick with what I have. I almost did too. The fear of starting over and not meeting the right person almost made me stay.
But I knew what I wanted and that relationship wasn’t it.
2 years down the line, I’m still very much single and I don’t regret my decision. When you have a clear direction of who you want and what you want, it can look like it’s harder to meet someone, and honestly it is. But I still think it’s better than being with the wrong person just because you’re scared there’s nothing else out there.
Some people mistreat you and then act like you betrayed them. The victim mentality is a dangerous drug. They will literally rewrite the entire history of what happened just to avoid feeling guilty.
@ddlovato Updated Fav songs of Demi’s albums @ddlovato 🤍
DF: On The Line & Trainwreck
HWGA: Stop The World
U: My Love Is Like A Star
D: Nightingale & In Case
C: For You
TMYLM: Ruin The Friendship & YDDIFMA
DWTD: Sunset & 15 Minutes
HF: SUBSTANCE
INTD: Let You Go & In My Head
Updated Fav songs of Demi’s albums @ddlovato 🤍
*DF: On The Line & Trainwreck
HWGA: Stop The World
U: My Love Is Like A Star
*D: Nightingale & In Case
C: For You
TMYLM: Ruin The Friendship & You Don’t Do It For Me Anymore
DWTD: Sunset
HF: SUBSTANCE
Can’t wait for the next one!
@sagelovebars Yes, at one point I stayed the same weight for 6 months, but I looked completely different by month 6 because of body recomp. The scale didn’t move, but my body shape definitely changed!!!
if there's one thing i have learned from the women before me, it is not to make huge life altering sacrifices for men. They do not deserve such loyalty and commitment
@28nkeki Last time I got ignored for 5 days straight right before his bday. I took it as no contact and didn’t tell him happy bday. We haven’t spoken since…. I guess he didn’t like that I didn’t acknowledge his existence… funny how that works.