my therapist told me my ability to cut people off and self-isolate is not a skill i should be proud of - it's a trauma response rooted in never having anyone to depend on.
Friendship isn’t about staying the same. It’s about growing together, even when life pulls you in different directions. The best friendships evolve, adapting to new seasons, challenges, and distances. Real bonds aren’t measured by constant presence but by consistent support.
If it isn’t laundry it’s the dishes. If it isn’t the dishes the bathroom needs to be clean, fridge needs to be stocked or floors need to be mopped. It’s never ending 😂