Kissing Passionately
Lick My Body Drool all over me licking kissing caressing
Drool drip in my mouth
sloppy deep tongue kiss
Frotting
Body2Body
Skin2Skin
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We have to move away from the fantasy thinking involved in trying to live within the confines of a relationship model like Monogamy - is unnatural; designed to entrap those within to a set of rules that are impossible to sustain.
It is front loaded to entrap women within a system that denies them capable of having a sexual identity and robs them of any sexual agency whatsoever and dooms them to a life of servitude.
Itโs a contract stacked in favor of the party with the power.
Even within a modern context it is virtually impossible to achieve. Itโs a medieval form of torture that dooms all who adopt it as the ideal relationship model to a life that centers on failure of spirit, a belief that if they try really hard they can be the ideal partner - their partners one and only, the soul made and sole confidant . Everyone in a monogamous relationship that fails ends up feeling guilty even when theyโve done nothing wrong.
OP people in general donโt know how to advocate for their wants and needs with in any relationship. Love is a dumb basis for entering into a relationship. Especially when the default model locks everyone involved to an agreement where the capacity of either party to honour the premise that each is the one and only for the other.
Their only sexual partner, their only choice for advice on life and their only BEST FRIEND. No one person can satisfy that for the other. To expect them to do so robs each the other of any chance for redemption because we are only human.
Love exists but it does not last and biological never evolved to do so; it was NEVER meant to be the glue that binds a couple to a common purpose and certainly canโt make the impossible happen. Relationships are based on TRUST. The TRUST in yourself to know who you are and what you need. The TRUST that your partner also returns that TRUST.
And it is not to be taken at face value. To trust another isnโt some mysterious bond that will somehow reveal itself. Trust involved repeated observation of another that what and who they say they are is demonstrated repeatedly by the behavior that follows. Did they do what they said they would do in the way that they said they would. Do their promises mean anything?
Trust isnโt blind it requires explicit declarations and explicit consequences when and if a trust is violated. It required an actual framework on what the relationship is and isnโt. That framework hold within it the parameters of the relationship the consequences of violating the agreed to framework for the life that both parties stated up front and in writing were the reason for rhe choice to becoming partners.
If you canโt live up to the things you say you want and the things you will do you have zero business being in a relationship in the first place. HONESTY and TRUST are the cornerstones. And that applies to every relationship human have with themselves and with others