and this dehumanisation happens fr! i'm disabled and my ex expected me to do the physical stuff even when i was in pain/injured; i've had talking stages expect constant attention/emotional availability, i've had my boundaries disrespected,.. all in the name of "serving them"
butch trans women/transfems deserve to just be handed stacks of cash all the time whenever. femme trans women/transfems too in fact everyone just get in this line every transfem is getting a stack of cash
The concept of a butch getting me high and making me rub my clit for them after having me drink tons of water. using the excuse “water is good for you, so you don’t green out” I can feel the pressure in my lower stomach start to build and they take my hand away replacing it with
@TruthAcorn The people who tend to use such descriptors relate heavily to those terms. Being a butch or a femme is a large part of their identity, of who they are as a person. Being affirmed in that, seen as who you truly are and strive to be, is a nice feeling. I'd hardly call them "glib."
I am sorry:( as a disabled femme I feel this so incredibly much. Sometimes I wonder if I’ll meet a butch who’ll actually cherish me without quilt or resentment bc of my disability. You will find someone who will love and talk care of you +