Self-differentiation as being present with and aware of other people's emotions without being triggered into unproductive actions that perpetuate the cycle of dysfunction.
https://t.co/IcpcGSKiBT
God is inviting (I want to say "forcing!") me to recognize that what I assume is my identity is actually my religion, and that its primary purpose is to cover up shame. Which is the enemy of true intimacy, especially with God.
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Self-righteous agents defend their truth and manipulate others to follow.
Self-effacing agents doubt their truth and expect others to control.
Self-differentiating agents know their truth and invite others to collaborate.
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I consider an intimate relationship with Jesus the most reliable way to achieve that level of self-sacrificing security, but I'd love to learn about other practices people find helpful in making that shift.
Self-differentiation as being present with and aware of other people's emotions without being triggered into unproductive actions that perpetuate the cycle of dysfunction.
https://t.co/IcpcGSKiBT
In particular, I believe the hardest part of self-differentiation is shifting from the implicit "what do I need from others to feel safe" to an explicit "what do they need from me to become healthier."