-refusing to ask for help
-downplaying your achievements
-isolating yourself instead of communicating
-saying "yes" to everything
-neglecting your own needs
-avoiding important responsibilities
-flooding your mind with negativity
-always chasing perfection
الناس أهدافها كلها دنيوية، تخرج، وظيفة ،زواج، مشروع، منصب ،مال…الخ
قليل من الناس اللي صار يشتغل على الأهداف الأبدية! واللي يخوّف ان الكل مدرك هذي الحقيقة بس جالس يعيش الحياة كأنه مُخلد للأبد، ما يدري اننا بأكثر وقت الناس تموت فيه بأتفه الأسباب
@Abbas_bnSanusi I agree, my brother. I sometimes pity people who haven't embrace tawakkul. Such a freeing feeling. I was so miserable before understanding it.
Kalau dia sembunyikan dosa yang dia sedang lalui, boleh jadi Allah akan dan masih boleh ampunkan dia di akhirat kelak; ini janji Allah.
Malangnya, dia memilih untuk menzahirkan dosa, maka dia juga perlu bersedia untuk dinasihati dan ditegah oleh masyarakat berkenaan perbuatan tersebut.
Renungilah hadis Nabi ﷺ ini:
كلُّ أُمَّتي مُعافًى إلا المجاهرين
Maksudnya: “Semua umatku akan diberi keampunan, kecuali mereka yang menzahirkan dosanya.”
Kemudian sambung Baginda ﷺ:
و إنَّ من الجِهارِ أن يعملَ الرجلُ بالليلِ عملًا ثم يُصبِحُ و قد ستره اللهُ تعالى فيقولُ: عملتُ البارحةَ كذا و كذا، و قد بات يسترُه ربُّه، و يُصبِحُ يكشفُ سِترَ اللهِ عنه.
Dan sesungguhnya antara bentuk berterang-terangan itu ialah seseorang melakukan suatu perbuatan (dosa) pada waktu malam, kemudian pada pagi harinya [sedangkan Allah telah menutup aibnya] dia berkata:
عملتُ البارحةَ كذا و كذا
“Aku telah melakukan semalam begini dan begini.”
Padahal dia telah bermalam dalam lindungan tutupan Tuhannya, tetapi pada pagi hari dia sendiri membuka tutupan Allah ke atas dosa dirinya itu.”
HR al-Bukhari (6069) dan Muslim (2990).
Sejahat mana kita, janganlah sesekali menunjukkan dosa kita kepada khalayak ramai apatah lagi berbangga dengan perbuatan tersebut.
Semoga Allah pelihara kita semua.
just finished watching the Prophet ﷺ Seerah series. and i can confidently say with all my heart and soul, he is the greatest person to ever step foot on this earth. there was no one like him and theres never ever going to be anyone like him ever again. Muhammad ﷺ.
Speaking about the deep contradictions in human nature, Japanese actor Hiroyuki Sanada said:
“Some people dream of having a swimming pool at home, while those who have one barely use it. Those who have lost a loved one feel a profound sense of loss, while others often complain about the relatives still in their lives. Those without a partner long for one, while those who have a partner often fail to appreciate them. The hungry would give anything for a meal, while the full complain about the taste of their food. Those without a car dream of owning one, while those who have a car are always looking for a better one.
The key to happiness is gratitude—to truly see and value what we already have, and to understand that somewhere, someone would give everything for what we take for granted.”
‘Umar ibn Al-khattab said:
“No amount of guilt can change the past & no amount of worrying can change the future.
Go easy on yourself for the outcome of all affairs is determined by the decree of Allah.