Loyalty becomes a battlefield only when a man refuses to stand in his own authority. The question is not mother or wife, that dilemma appears only when he is too afraid to disappoint either, and so he becomes a servant to both. A man who has not yet claimed his own voice will always be pulled like rope between two hands, each tightening the moment he hesitates. The conflict is not between the women. The conflict is the absence of a spine.
A man is meant to listen first to the one voice he cannot escape: his own. From that place, he can honor his mother without becoming her child again, and love his wife without surrendering his judgment. When a man chooses clarity over compliance, both women know where he stands. And the moment they know where he stands, the war ends, not because they agree, but because they can no longer bend him into what they prefer.
The tragedy is that most men try to keep the peace by betraying themselves. They forget that the peace purchased through silence is actually obedience in disguise. And obedience always collapses under the weight of expectation.
-The Weaver of Woe
A divided man serves everyone, except himself.
@AfricanBlackAsa@Wandi_SA What is your take on that? I want to see if you'll have the same rage as you would for a gal child. Dont ask me why im not making it trend, we all know even if I try, etlo fella kae? Obviously the system is setup for you creatures, as useless as you've become to society...
@AfricanBlackAsa@Wandi_SA Just to vavavuum your mind ga nnyane, lemme give a real time scenario as a challenge, a boy was recently RAPED by TWO ELDERLY DRUNK FUCKS OF YOUR GENDER, coming from shop/playing w his buds, boy was called, quickie quickie, boy gets home and tells his mom his penis hurt...
@AfricanBlackAsa@Wandi_SA Let's assume, hypothetically, the gal is a gent, the board is flipped, basically the tables have turned, "ALL WOMEN MUST DIE", the board says - you know what you'd be saying RN wena yrself? "This is why we have GBV. men don't love us, men hate us", when in truth you hate yrselves
@Scede_CMK@MXihaxu@Wandi_SA Died at the hands of his lover, stabbed w a knife. Killer walks free, excused cos she had "exams". SAHRC and our law are so useless, hence they support the movement of these useless creatures
@DickRaw52@tutticontenti@AntiWokeMemes N yet the LGBTQ+HDMI-PS5-GOT-HOTD fam is the one that has issues in being "accepted" into the normal world 😭 i thank my parents n family for hating i guess, hence I got here 😂
@CeliStewart The woman is married, do we defend nonsense or stop romanticizing it? Cos I for 1, i won't be defending masepa, hay khona. The man scored to the gent even though its disgraceful. The woman? Oh thats her new badge of honor, "Honorable member wa Silifaka lonke"
@ItsAmahAdoma Don't worry lady, the question you asking, its been asked and answered before. You wanna know whats funny? Women ask and somehow still come to argue about what men want. Men been saying for a long time what they want, prefer n value but somehow the woman is like: