@MsNewYear23 I know someone who was already making her eldest daughter look after the little ones when she had 4 kids. She’s now pregnant with her 6th, the eldest daughter has run away and now lives with her dad. Mum is bitching that her daughter is selfish and should value her family more
@__MarieTherese_ My eldest is called Rowena, and we constantly get the “oh that was my aunty’s name!” comments from older people 🥹 Seeing their faces light up is so beautiful 😍
@jlm_sophie Mum of 3 (soon 4), and a doula. Put baby down, even if she fusses. She can fuss for a few minutes, your mental and physical health cannot be put aside, you will both suffer for it
@ThatRosaryGirl I have a 5yr old, 3yr old, and 18mth old. We don’t own a tablet, the kids do lots of colouring and imaginative play, and they chat with us. I’ve never felt the need to dull them with a screen. Also, they have ADHD or ASD or a combo of both 😂
@Remzsx I’ve considered this scenario, my mother is an abusive alcoholic, I cut her out of my life to keep me and my kids safe a few years ago. If she were to need a liver transplant, I’m her only child. I know I will refuse. The consequences of her actions aren’t mine to fix or carry
@clhubes@realgirl_fieri On the days my 2yr old doesn’t want to go we say “wanna see Mr Jordan?!” and she squeals “Mr Dordaaaaaan!!!” as she runs out of the house
@Amxa02 My toddlers always say “it’s ok, we can clean it up!” if they spill food or water 🥹 We also get “You’ll feel better tomorrow” if we’re sad and “you’ve got this, you can do hard things!” whenever we struggle with something 🩷
@clhubes I homebirthed my 2nd, 3rd, and will my 4th. Personally I loved having my older kid(s) meet baby at birth, and I still had lots of kid-free time thanks to my partner and friends taking the older one(s). It’s not for everyone but spending time in a hospital sounds like hell to me
@clhubes My husband leaves me with 3 kids multiple times a year, yet I’ve never thought of setting up a meal train 🤯 That’s a brillirnt idea! I’m absolutely doing that next time!
@maddylion@Carina_Amyth@ask_aubry I asked her what she meant, she had said “a baby made in a lab just isn’t the same as a baby made from love, it’ll be lacking”. The conversation ended there 😅
@ihjrts@clhubes She shames others, if that’s what you’re saying. She’s attacked me for putting my kids in daycare, and frequently talks about how mums who don’t spend every second with their children are neglectful.
I’m really not sure why you feel the need to be snarky. I’m out 👋
@ihjrts@clhubes been brainwashed into being away from their babies.
She’s also in an MLM if that helps you believe it more 😂
There’s some seriously weird people out there, consider yourself lucky your bubble is not comprised of people with different views to your own
@ihjrts@clhubes I’m not going to publicly out here because you’re close-minded and can’t accept other people have other experiences than you.
She is neurotic. She definitely has support, she is adamant her daughter will suffer if away from her and that mothers have lost touch and