Donโt let temporary emotions cloud your judgment. Most of the time, what you think is a problem is just a passing wave of feelings that will soon dissipate.
In the โHereโ and โNowโ, everything is ok.
Things start to go wrong when you think about the future or the past in a way to prevent yourself from suffering.
Some people will provide you with everything you need in the present, but with the ulterior motive of using you in the future when they require more from you.
@rahmipure Most people wouldnโt, but no one will admit it. Which lead me to the conclusion that people is incapable of loving unconditionally, but most arenโt ready for this conversation.
@ML_Philosophy Because the abuser sometimes, drops some form of love to the abused, some sort of reward, making that person addicted to the unexpected rewards, in Psychology is called intermittent reinforcement, it's what makes the gambler addicted to the game.