Some of the most amazing people I know are Sex Workers.
They are not amazing by being Sex Workers, they are simply amazing people that happen to choose to be Sex Workers.
Like Teachers and Fire Fighters they deserve to be respected.
Like Artists they need to be supported.
I am not going to sugar coat it. This is bad. This smoke is worse than 2023, and will get worse tonight and tomorrow. Please be safe and think about your exposure to the outside. I know some have obligations that take them outside, others can't wear masks, etc, but do what you can to make sure you are safe and healthy.
"Dom" demanding access to every part of your life before trust has been built. You RUN.
Dom understands that control is negotiated and not assumed.
Submission is a gift and not a surrender of your identity as a person!
Dom earns authority. They're not entitled to it.
This perfectly explains the reason communication is vital, so she can draw those lines, decides how the picture looks, then I can create the masterpiece, respecting the lines she drew, because we talked through it all beforehand 😈😈😈 #nsfw
Any Dom using neglect, silent treatment and emotional withdrawal as punishment is abuse to me.
A Dom isn't measured by how much damage you can cause when you're angry or a rule is broken
There's a difference between taking space and deliberately withholding contact to harm.
@justmeAriana yes you need to do something to celebrate please. Every birthday, every day is a gift. something fun for you. doesn't have to be big - could be as simple as a favorite drink or treat at a coffee shop or restaurant.
Attentiveness isn't just a scene skill but a dynamic skill.
A Dom caring about your wellbeing outside of scenes.
Checking in at random times to make sure you're well.
You should feel valued as a whole person. Not just when you're in a sub headspace.
Happiness is the goal.
I know that looking for a good dynamic for yourself is challenging.
But don't put yourself at risk just to have one.
It's so important to take your time and vet.
Always keep learning and educating yourself so you can spot the fake one quickly and not waste your precious time.
@justmeAriana To me the true dom must first learn to dom themselves. They need to always be in control of themselves before they can be entrusted to control another