A man finds true connection with other like minded driven men, rare to find that connection with his children or family members as he merely plays a role in a that dynamic, As a provider and protector, he is thought more of a tool, that is never to bend or break.
If you got a bunch of muscle, fine clothes, and a sweet car, but lose your shit over a single word or insult, you're still weak.
Work on that mind little boy.