Life is short. So don’t waste your energies on things & people who don't contribute to your growth & are busy with negativity. Wake daily recharged, eager to put to good use the blessings the Almighty has sent your way. Not everyone has this opportunity. Be grateful.
Be kind always. Nobody knows what problems people may be battling. Just because we don't talk about them doesn't mean they're not there. We all deal with things differently. Some find it easy to talk and open up about what they’re going through. Others don't. Show compassion!
Take time for self-reflection and introspection. Do it for self-development. But the truth is we’re too busy & when we’re not, we’d rather be analysing people’s lives based on what we see on social media. Remember, we don’t learn from experience but from reflecting on them!
Do you feel angry or resentful when being corrected or shown the truth? If you do, then you have a problem with pride! Be wary because even a atom’s weight of it can bar you from Paradise! So work on your heart. Purify it. Humble yourself to people. Get rid of self-importance!
Let us not fool ourselves into thinking that without any effort on our part we will receive Allah’s forgiveness. We must feel genuine remorse. Remorse is the essence of repentance.
If you fear that they cannot maintain God’s limits, then there is no blame on them if she sacrifices something for her freedom. These are God’s limits, so do not transgress them. Those who transgress God’s limits are the unjust.
When you see others doing well & having a seemingly good life, it’s easy to get discouraged & think that your life isn’t going to change. Everyone has struggles in life, Everyone has disappointments, but if you think good thoughts of the Almighty, He will bless you immensely.
Some find it so hard to say no because they are scared of being judged. They're scared of what others will think of them once they change their attitude & stop saying yes to everything. The truth is people will form an opinion of you no matter what you do! So decline politely.