Ayo

Never Give Up

[Ayo @SubbyPhat]

Don't stress over things beyond your control!

[Ayo @SubbyPhat]

One of the realities of growing up that I’ve finally realized is that you’d grow apart from friends, the one you didn’t grow apart would live so far away that you won’t get to constantly hangout with them again.

[Sam Otigba @SamuelOtigba]

If you’re Nigerian and you didn’t drop litter in your environment today, like & RT. I want to check something.

[Ayo @SubbyPhat]

Do you remember when you joined X? I do! #MyXAnniversary

[Ayo @SubbyPhat]

@glitzy_jay @MrJags_ Noted…..

[Ayo @SubbyPhat]

@glitzy_jay @MrJags_ Send location for Eid ma

[Ayo @SubbyPhat]

Thank God for life.
No be sey e rosy but man Dey breathe.

[Uncle Ruckus @Emarged]

David Beckham is very petty. 😂😂

[The Jídé Taiwo @thejidetaiwo]

Ah yes. I have another friend whose family has a sizable house in that Ayobo gan. They fixed their own flat and started their life from there. Imagine looking for 5 million every year because they want to leave home and live in Ogudu.

You people are not serious please.

[Queeneth @Queeneth01olx]

I spent 4 years paying my younger sister’s school fees. Every single kobo.

The day she graduated, she gave the acknowledgement speech and thanked everyone except me.

I sat in that hall and felt my soul leave my body 😭.

When she got admission, things were tight at home.

I had just started my first job.

I told our parents, "Don't worry. I’ll handle it." And I did.

Every semester. No breaks.

There were months I was eating 0-1-0 so her account wouldn't run dry.

I never told her. I didn't think I needed to.

Graduation day, she looked beautiful. The first graduate in our family.

I was prouder of her than I’ve ever been of myself.

Then she got the mic.

> She thanked God. (Fair).
> She thanked our parents. (Expected).
> She thanked her friends who kept her sane.
> She even thanked her HOD.

Then she sat down.

My mother looked at me. I smiled and looked away, but the clapping felt like it was happening in a different room.

I didn’t say anything that day. Or the week after.

But something in how I moved changed.

I stopped volunteering. Started waiting to be asked. Started noticing who actually noticed me.

People say, "Don’t give to be recognized." I agree to an extent.

But there is a thin line between not needing applause and being erased by the person you bled for.

That's not humility. That's invisibility.

We’re fine now. I brought it up six months later, calmly.

She cried, and said she was nervous and blanked.

Maybe. Maybe not 🤷

But I learned something either way.

Sacrifice without communication creates invisible resentment.

Tell people what you are carrying for them. Not to guilt trip them. But because silence makes martyrs, and martyrs make bitter people.

This same dynamic shows up in dating every day.

You’re playing the provider or the supporter in silence, while your partner thinks you're just an oil money that never runs dry.

Stop accepting the bare minimum of gratitude. If they don't see the sacrifice, they won't value the person making it.

Has someone ever made you feel invisible in a relationship after everything you did for them?
Let’s talk below.👇

[Ayo @SubbyPhat]

Fuel price come dem motivate me to stay for house…

[LADE HER$ELF @Thebiglade]

Adults who still watch cartoons. Retweet this.

[Ayo @SubbyPhat]

There’s a miracle with my name on it.

[Ayo @SubbyPhat]

What was my first ever tweet on this app?
@grok

[FearBuck @FearedBuck]

Justin Bieber performs at the GRAMMYs wearing only his underwear

[Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo @GbengaWemimo]

I was abroad one day when I noticed that my phone was behaving strangely
I was on a Zoom Call (Sunday service) when I noticed the issue
I reached out for help and discovered what she had done
How can anyone be that insecure?

[Fr Joseph Hudson @acloudofsaints]

You do not have unlimited time.
Your death will come on an ordinary day, in the middle of unfinished plans, and the world will continue on without you.

[Ja Leto @_falsi1ke]

Another day to remind you that a woman's lack of effort is not a sign for you to try harder.

[Depegan of Lagos 🇳🇬🇺🇸 @Mautiin01]

Ololufe- Orlando Julius ❤️

Proper Legend 🐐 🙌🏻✨