After the BEST weekend of my life with my divine Owner @aliciagoddessx3 i am beyond proud, finally after 2 years i am now fully collared and owned, and Goddess certainly knows how to Dominate Her slave. Such a Goddess in every way.
Submissives.
Please vet your Dominants.
What have THEY done to deserve and earn your submission. If it’s only their name and what they look like do not go a step further.
Remember they have to show due diligence, professionalism and integrity way before you start sending or serving.
Research research research!!!!
Look at their page (all of their page)
Read all of their posts
Research their links
How do they portray themselves?
Do they show and demonstrate BDSM D/s experience and expertise?
Do they promise integrity safety and reliability?
How do they showcase themselves ?
How do they engage with other Dominants?
How do they engage with other submissives?
How do they “keep” their own submissives?
Even if one red flag presents it is not worth it in the long run.
Once you have found a worthy Dominant. Learn their wants and needs. Ask yourself, how could you exist in their life, how could you make a positive contribution? Does your style match with theirs? Could you maintain a dynamic with this person every moment they expect you too? Could you maintain a dynamic delivering what you want too! Remember it’s about your wants and needs too - that’s why it’s called a power exchange. You’re exchanging agencies with each other to find a deliciously hot enjoyable experience for you BOTH!
Once you are happy with the decision of the Dominant you want to serve please and obey, prepare a Q&A of questions to negotiate with. Between 20-100 should be readily at your finger tips. Because once you start negotiating you want to discover and enjoy the journey of compatibility.
Also be ready for rejection. Just because you like the Dominant in question, you may not vibe or get on as well as you thought.
But ultimately once you’ve taken your time to research approach and negotiate get ready for the most enjoyable thing us as humans can and will ever experience.
Take your time, don’t rush and really satisfy all of your critical and common sense thinking. This isn’t for the faint hearted.
submission is a gift and it’s yours to give. Dominants should earn it as much as you earn them.
A real Dominant understands this process and will be gentle in your journey. Anyone pushing for more or being disrespectful (within reason) are not Dominant and won’t ever be a good match for you.
My advice is
Research
Communicate
Be patient
Be self aware
Enjoy!
So massively excited!
In 3 weeks today me and my Owner @AllforAliciaxx will be doing something special as the next step in our D/s!
All will be revealed - but absolutely so excited I think I’m going to pass out!
😈🥵🥳✨🧎🏻♂️👸🏼💸💫