@wittysiddharth It's amazing and very very very optimised and reliable. There are chances that the staff at the hotel would give the luggage to you before you are done with the check in process at the destination.
@stephsmithio the collective pull for greater good of others is out of the world- rebuilding the country and life after WW2, you realise it when you are among the people🧿
youth is never coming back.. so you better take pictures of sunlight coming into the house, plant a tree, roam the city without a purpose, follow the moon
I know couples like this too.
And I get why people say “it backfires”, because in India we equate meaning with kids by default.
But I have also seen the other side.
A child does not automatically give you purpose. Plenty of parents are still lonely, still bored, still drifting… just with higher EMIs and more stress. And plenty of childfree couples build insanely meaningful lives, because they actually choose purpose instead of inheriting it.
The real problem is not “no kids”. The real problem is “no mission”.
If your life has no responsibility, you will default to consumption. Not because you are a bad person, but because society literally trained you like that. Study. Job. Marriage. Buy stuff. Take trips. Repeat. They sold us the dream that comfort = success, and then act surprised when comfort turns into numbness.
You can create responsibility on purpose.
Raise something other than a child: Build a company. Mentor juniors. Adopt animals. Take care of parents. Fund a school. Teach kids for free on weekends. Train for a marathon. Write a book. Create art. Build a community. Start a local club. Volunteer in a cause where you cannot quit when motivation dies.
Legacy is not just DNA. Legacy is what still exists because you existed.
And about old age.
Kids are not a guaranteed retirement plan anymore. People move abroad. They get busy. Relationships get messy. Health happens. Life happens. If you want companionship at 60, you have to invest in humans today, not just markets. Friends. Family. Community. Students. People you helped when they needed it.
The scary part is not being childfree.
The scary part is thinking “easy life” will stay satisfying forever.
Pick a bigger impact. Make yourself useful. Build something that demands you show up even when you do not feel like it.
That is what keeps you sharp, grounded, and alive.