until men and women start having honest conversations about who they truly are, the demons they battle, their shortcomings, their backgrounds, and what they truly want, love will remain a temporary emotion. honesty and communication are key.
No weapon formed against you shall prosper, And every tongue which rises against you in judgment You shall condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, And their righteousness is from Me,” Says the Lord - Isaiah 54:17
I avoid eggshell type of relationships, can’t express yourself, can’t be yourself, can’t ever be straight forward, can’t be comfortable, can’t talk like adults, can’t be heard, can’t respond with love without it turning into something negative…
long term relationships really come with a lot of forgiveness..... don’t think u bouta have 3+ perfect years with someone. we all have flaws and toxic traits so find someone you can grow and become better with.
I just want someone to be truly happy over me. Happy to see me. Happy to hear from me. Happy to spend time with me. Happy to be my safe place. Happy to cater me. Happy to know me. Just happy to have me and love me loudly. Give me the same energy, love & loyalty I'm giving you.
If you lack emotional intelligence we can never work out honestly. I can't teach you how to apologize, how to take accountability for your actions, how to treat me and others with respect. These are basic qualities someone should possess before entering a relationship!
i don’t hate you. i just hate that you made me doubt myself. that you loved me in a way that made me feel hard to love. that i gave you soft, and you gave me confusion. i don’t hate you. but i hate what loving you did to me.
Having an emotionally mature partner is a blessing. To be able to say "Hey, this bothers me" & seeing the change almost instantaneously is really Top Tier. Like you heard me, you seen me, you validated me, you fixed the issue, no argument, no drama just pure accountability >>
My mind is so programmed to think about how blessed I am. No matter what I go through, my thoughts always lead me back to gratitude, because I have never faced anything that God hasn’t brought me through.
I wanna marry a man who makes me laugh like crazy, reassures me that i'm loved even in hard situations, always puts effort for me everyday & is my best friend & LOVER. A man who knows how to calm my insecurities. A man who's my home in chaos. A man who loves me like breathing