Suleiman J. Yahaya

I Write Articles on Substack | I write to make sense of love, life, and everything messy in between.

[Dangata @abduldangata20]

Love is like a rizq, the earlier you understand this, the better you let go of romantic obsession. It’s a myth. It’s not something you hold onto as metrics that shape relationships. It’s one of the reasons why romance and love aren’t mentioned in the holy Quran. These are human traits and fragile qualities that don’t stand the test of time.

[Gia Macool @GiaMMacool]

After a certain age,

your parents slowly become your children.

They ask same questions again.

They repeat stories you've heard a thousand times.

They forget little things.

Their steps become slower.

Their world becomes smaller.

And without realizing it...
The people who once carried you through life begin depending on you.

Very few people recognize this role reversal.

What feels like an inconvenience is often just time reminding us that nothing lasts forever.

Don't rush them.
Don't correct them harshly.
Don't make them feel like a burden.

One day, their voice will be silent.

The questions will stop.

The stories will never be told again.

And you'll wish for just one more interruption...

One more repeated story...

One day, you'll give anything to hear those same stories again.

One more chance to hear them call your name.

Growing old is a privilege not everyone receives.

Care for them the way they once cared for you

It’s repayment. 

It's the final way we say...

Thank you for spending your life loving me .

[T_G @T_Gofficial01]

Men listen, you’ll realize how excessive your options are when you start working tirelessly on yourself and taking very good care of your health and all sections of yourself. Women can sense it when they see a guy of substantial values. How you carry yourself and position in various social situations determines how much your values are worth. You’re the prize. Never let any woman downplay that. Do the work that’s needed to elevate yourself and fixate on the process. You’ll then start to see the blissfulness of grooming and liking yourself.

[Suleiman J. Yahaya @Sule_Jarma]

Someone earning 200M gross annually isn't rich?

[Ahmad @1lahmad]

What’s your definition of rich? Even these places’ salaries won’t make you rich. You’d at least have to be a director to receive maybe 200m annual salary including bonuses and allowances. And the last time I checked, gaining 200m annually does not make you rich.

[Joseph Tsar @joseph_tsar_]

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[Hours @hours]

turning 30 today

the biggest lesson from my twenties is to never mistake your current trajectory for your destination

no matter how fucked you think you are, a few years can rewrite everything

keep going

[DAN KOE @thedankoe]

The average person does not try to solve their problems or struggles. They get stuck in a routine and live the same day over and over. It does not cross their minds to snap out of it, engage in strategic thinking, and change direction so they can eventually reach a more advantageous position in life.

If you want to get ahead of 90% of people, all you have to do is pause, think, and actually attempt to overcome the struggle you're faced with.

[DAN KOE @thedankoe]

The primary reason people don't achieve big goals is because they don't realize that the only source of truth is making mistakes. They soak up advice and theory, expecting it to be an exact match to their mind, experience, and situation just to fail once and give up completely.

[Suleiman J. Yahaya @Sule_Jarma]

@addigmm @MT_Masnawah meyace?

[Murph @ninjasniperpon]

She was sent by God to kill the stupid and naive version of you that used to exist. Be grateful.

[Suleiman J. Yahaya @Sule_Jarma]

“O Allah, I ask you for Your love, and the love of those who love You, and the love of every deed that brings me closer to Your love.

[Suleiman J. Yahaya @Sule_Jarma]

Allahumma inni as’aluka hubbak, wa hubba man yuhibbuk, wa hubba kulli amalin yuqarribuni Ila hubbik.

[Suleiman J. Yahaya @Sule_Jarma]

Allahumma inni as’aluka hubbak, wa hubba man yuhibbuk, wa hubba kulli amalin yuqarribuni Ila hubbik.

[Suleiman J. Yahaya @Sule_Jarma]

The very first i felt an atom of hate towards Trevor was when Nicki outted him but i did some reflections later and pretend to forget his sexuality

[kànmí @Danhameeda]

Mio gba ti Trevor noah lati bi si beun. Mo hate bobo yen daku kai 😔😭

[27. @dimvji]

all roads eventually lead back to the interests you had as a child

[Suleiman J. Yahaya @Sule_Jarma]

My girlfriend hit up her friend’s birthday bash. the girl boyfriend bought four whole cakes and a massive money bouquet.
her sc streak is wild.

I can't believe my relationship is over 😭💔

[Suleiman J. Yahaya @Sule_Jarma]

@addigmm 😭😭😭

[Suleiman J. Yahaya @Sule_Jarma]

@addigmm That's how i feel

[Suleiman J. Yahaya @Sule_Jarma]

A painful realisation i have come to terms with that;
I have still never felt truly loved and seen by even 1 woman. I fear this is something that men can never experience.

[Suleiman J. Yahaya @Sule_Jarma]

Read here
https://t.co/q0Ozvb2SGt

[Suleiman J. Yahaya @Sule_Jarma]

Reconciliation floods you with nostalgia, but by the time you've broken up, you've already changed — grown into something that doesn't fit the shape of your old relationship anymore.

[Yehgha @yaygha]

Broadly speaking, not a good idea - and the circumstances that led to the initial breakup are immaterial.

Even in the best of cases, the person you get back with, will most likely turn out to be, from your perspective, a worse version of the person you used to know.

That rosy retrospection you're probably doing is an illusion. Let it go