I feel like despite how much loyalty I gave ppl, old and new…they still choose the newer ppl who make them feel those feelings of getting to know someone new again. The ego stroking shit tho. Not the genuine stuff
Nothing I do or say has to make sense to you. Even if I come up with a plan for us, just see the vision. Sometimes we’re the student & other times we’re the teacher. Stop learning & you’ll die another death while still roaming the earth.
You are allowed to experience joy while things in your life are unresolved. If you postpone happiness until everything is perfect, you’ll be postponing it forever.
I love you enough to let your life remain yours. I miss you and I won’t use my missing you as a reason to disturb your life. That space is where self agency begins & one of the most difficult lessons intimacy gives us.
Emotional intelligence is recognizing that someone’s behavior can genuinely hurt you while also being aware that a wound from your past may be intensifying your reaction to it.
To know how big my love is, you must understand that the depths of my hate can get wild. That’s why I’d rather stay sane and away from yall weird ppl 🫶🏾😮💨😶🌫️
fun fact: if you’re only valued when you’re radiant, sensual and sweet but not when you’re sad, frustrated or needing emotional depth then you’re being objectified and this goes to friendship too.
fun fact: if you’re only valued when you’re radiant, sensual and sweet but not when you’re sad, frustrated or needing emotional depth then you’re being objectified and this goes to friendship too.
Yall think passionate people are just “crash outs”when they express normal emotions, because y’all don’t have the same self love and honor for yourselves in your hearts. Yall just hide your emotions, afraid of judgement, afraid of feeling shit, and wanna blend in with the rest of the narcissistic ass boring crowd of people who lack empathy and passion.
You cannot embarrass a healed empath. They are not ashamed of their past and they don’t care what others think about them anymore. Bring up anything you want from their unhealed, low vibrational days. It’s all now part of their healing journey story that they would willingly share with you if it would help you in any way. Healed empaths have faced all of their shadows and demons to understand and make peace with all of them. They have found a way to love and forgive every past version of themselves who had to die to become the healed person they are today.
Sometimes the closure is realizing they behave like this with everybody eventually. You just took it personally because you loved them. The plot twist? It was never personal. You just got close enough to see the pattern.