unfortunately i don’t like nonchalant… be dominant… check on me… be affectionate… tell me i’m gorgeous… plan the dates… buy me flowers… be absolutely obsessed.
Stop letting a man who move funny run your emotions. If he can go ghost, act weird, and sleep peaceful at night, then you can remove yourself from his life and sleep even better. Don’t give power to inconsistency. If he can detach that easy, you can detach permanently. Choose you
Realizing that you're incompatible with someone and choosing to walk away instead of fantasizing about their potential is a superpower. Most people stay because hope feels easier than grief. But real maturity is recognizing incompatibility early and leaving without self-betrayal.
I truly believe that the love of my life is not in my state, but after watching a few episodes of Love is Blind, I 1,000% believe that they are not in Denver either.