most people don’t exercise bc it’s fucking boring dude. that’s it. it’s literally boring as hell. especially things like weightlifting, which is 9/10 times just grinding for vanity reasons. and people are always going to be iffy about it until we normalize play as exercise
oven has a Window , microwave too , you can see All the way through a blender , but the Dish washer , oh No you could Never see in there , they Refuse to let us See what’s going on in there
I have to say, as the father of a child who died, that parents "mourning" their children changing their names and their pronouns, is pretty hard to read.
Need to sell at least one painting by the end of tomorrow because we donhave a 24hr grace period before having an overdraft fee.
Everything in my shop is 15% off
https://t.co/5avnYHdpGd
Including these beauties that are 16in x 20in.
Ugh. In about 30 minutes at earliest, 9 am est at latest, my account will be overdrawn by 75 dollars because we filled up the car on the 1st and forgot to deduct it and paid the internet and part of our electric 😫
@KCDavisSays I totally agree. “My ADHD lets me come up with so many ideas!” Cool. Does your whiteness, and the money that comes with it, let you execute on them or do you just think of stuff all day without the resources to move forward?
@KCDavisSays I also see this with male privilege - a ton of people who have ADHD as a superpower don't have to go through the emotional labor of running a household. Yeah, my ADHD would be a "superpower" if I didn't have to also cook, clean or schedule things for myself.
Personally, every time Ive been tempted to think some aspect of my ADHD is a superpower I stop and say, “or is that the whiteness?” And 10/10 turns out the superpower is just white privilege
When you recognize you’re living inside of a 20+ year on psychic/emotional wound, don’t beat yourself up if you’re not able to fully heal & move from that place immediately.
Honor the place you’re in & presence yourself to strength & fortitude it took to arrive to this moment.
@hippychicky55@Lucy_Webster_ The plant based plastic straws I have tried crack/break into shards much easier than regular plastic straws. Idk about that brand in particular.
Perhaps you've wondered what Doritos would look like in a CT scan. We did, so here's a clump of Cool Ranch Doritos, scanned through the bag. But there's more...🧵
boundary: “i don’t feel comfortable with this behavior bc it makes ME feel insecure. therefore *i* will have to leave bc of MY emotions and how *i* have to manage them”
not boundary: “YOU are doing stuff i don’t like so YOU have to change your behavior or it’s boundary crossing”
What if there was a show where the writer of a show had a pretty large Fanbase that kept saying her characters are “autistic coded,” but those characters are self inserts and she’s neurotypical and has never been tested for autism. So, the writer goes on a journey to get