So many people in the bid to survive, rewire their brains to accept trauma as a constant, so when that phase ends, they begin to find now trauma, or gradually always expect some new trauma to replace the old one.
Same thing with soldiers who spend a good number of years at the battle front, witnessing the death of almost all their colleagues, friends and even relatives, when the war ends and they go home with scars that have deeply blended into their subconscious, they struggle ..
All your emotions are valuable. Not all are valid.
Your emotions tell where your mind is at, even when you are wrong.
so it is of value, because now we know where you are and can bring you to where the actual conversation is.
#Emotions#accountability
and ignoring your boy child and saying man up every time he needed a space to feel... is why he is prone to suicide ...
#Thread#Parenting#Parenthood#Mindset
I'll always say this against popular opinion.
Men and women stopped raising their kids right so long ago..
While women say only the girl child was raised right, statistics prove otherwise.
#Thread#Parenting#Parenthood#Mindset
Forcing your daughter to learn to cook and telling her every day that a man can never marry who can not cook is why women of today hate to cook because you hung their value around the kitchen
#Thread#Parenting#Parenthood#Mindset
A children's day with children in fear and parents who haven't been able to sleep for days since their kids have still not returned home. #children#Nigeria