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[A.Y.O @YusufAsunmogejo]

Don’t let me ignore this, perhaps it may benefit someone out there...

What you’ve asked is one of the most controversial discussions of our time. But I want us to look at it objectively through the lens of our Deen and the reality of the internet.

First of all, we have to agree on what the internet is. It is a global public square. When a Muslim woman observes hijab in the physical world, it is to shield herself from the unregulated gaze of non-mahram men. Therefore, taking a picture and putting it on a public timeline defeats that core purpose. Once an image is uploaded, you lose control over who looks at it, how long they stare, who saves it, and what they do with it.

For the men, this brings up the concept of Gheerah. Modern culture tries to frame Gheerah as insecurity or toxic control. But in Islam, it is a very honorable protective jealousy.

To establish this fact, let’s look at the Hadith in Sahih al-Bukhari. Sa'd bin Ubadah said if he saw a man with his wife, he would strike him with his sword. The Prophet heard this and said to the companions: "Are you amazed at the Gheerah of Sa'd? By Allah, I have more Gheerah than him, and Allah has more Gheerah than me."

To anchor this further, Imam Ibn al-Qayyim explained this beautifully in his book Rawdat al-Muhibbin. He wrote that Gheerah is the foundation of protecting one's honor. He stated that a heart empty of Gheerah is a heart inverted and empty of the religion. A Muslim husband with healthy Gheerah will feel a deep discomfort knowing random men have unrestricted access to his wife's pictures.

Again, we also need to be honest about the psychology of platforms such as Instagram and its likes. The entire system is built on the currency of attention. Posting pictures on a public page to gather likes and comments leans into Tabarruj, which is the display of beauty. The craving for digital applause contradicts the quiet dignity of Haya.

So to answer the core question Alhaji Sarki: No, I would not be comfortable with it. The beauty of a Muslim marriage is its privacy. When you keep the public out of your personal life and protect your home from the digital world, you preserve your peace and guard your religion.

I hope this helps answer your question.

Allah knows best.

[Bushra Shaikh @Bushra1Shaikh]

No woman wears revealing clothes in public for herself.

I said what I said.

[ikraah @ikraah_]

Some battles no one sees ,but Allah does. The fact you still turn to Him, even in silence and tears, is faith, not failure. He’s not asking for perfection, just sincerity. The heart heals in sujood. Slowly, but it heals. Keep returning. His door is never closed.

[Island gworl🏝️ @ndzalyy_]

I’m such a fragrance girly, I love smelling delicious! 🥹

[Mufti Menk @muftimenk]

Stop making Allah Almighty your last option. Instead, remember that He is your ONLY solution.

[Loky @lokymann]

Friends. Having actual friends. Not familiar acquaintances or online mutuals. Real Friends. One of the best hacks for a fulfilling life.

[Mufti Menk @muftimenk]

When you choose to get closer to the Almighty, you might become the target of brickbats and gossip. Never apologize for being a version of you that they’re not used to. If people cannot accept the NEW you, it’s not your problem but theirs.

[Gimba Kakanda @gimbakakanda]

The most logical reason to marry is truly the religious perspective—seeing it as half of one’s Deen. Every other reason for choosing a partner will be tested within a year or two of marriage: her hourglass figure you are obsessed with may succumb to childbirth, and some degree of see-finish would also creep in, especially if you are not the the most consistent provider.

But the one thing that remains unshakeable is loving for the sake of God and treating marriage as an act of worship.

[Shanelle @shanelle_shin94]

A house full of love is a very big luxury in this life

[Ginger @Gboye_Rave]

When it comes to leaving people alone, I don't disappoint. I love deeply, and i distance skillfully too

[Sadiya @Halima_Fajr]

From the benefits of istikhara is a calm soul— with the matter of desire. You find yourself trusting Allah more and just being pleased with whichever direction He guides you in.

Ask Allah yourself, and know that no one else can “pray istikhara for you” as some people claim to.

[Mufti Menk @muftimenk]

Remember, the Almighty is bigger than all your problems put together. Nothing is too big for Him. Lay your trust in Him and watch the life-changing moments He sends your way.

[Dr, n• @idcyr_]

Your attachment to Allah should be your priority.

[Fateey Kkg 💜 @FatimaKakangi]

Keep sending lots of Salawat to the prophet Muhammad S.A.W and watch how Allah would fix all the problems in your life, even the ones you didn’t mention.

[Sana @i_penwoman_]

Seeing everything from an Islamic perspective can really save you from a lot of pointless troubles.

[Mimi @minadanjay]

My favorite type of outfit at the moment is an atamfa or lace dress layered under an abaya. Scarf tied up and a classic pinned hijab style on top of it.

[First Lady @mayfred__]

The cheat code to life is finding an unproblematic partner you’re insanely attracted to and who is willing to do life with you.

[سنا ♡‏ @Sana_Ali39]

"What is your love language?"

"Prayers."
"Prayers?"
"Yes, I pray for the ones I love. Their names come into my prayers automatically. I pray for their health, their happiness, and that Allah always protect and guide them.

[Muhammad. @baphacongo]

The best thing you can do for yourself is cultivate the healthiest relationships with your parents and siblings, support them and every way possible, make amazing memories and be dutiful to them, life is short.