turns out women get more autoimmune diseases from suppressed anger and trauma.. so basically every time you don't flip a table, your immune system takes a hit. moral of the story? throw the fuckin chair girl. it's preventative medicine
my mom once told me βaccountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms othersβ and that shit is real.
βMy dad told me you should man up and stop whining cause I could have, and should have stabbed you, but instead I gave you a love tap for a reminder.β
signed, my fatherβs daughter
βHe has childhood trauma.β So do I.
βHeβs under a lot of pressure at work.β So am I.
βHeβs just overwhelmed.β Me too.
The only difference is that we excuse menβs behavior, and shame women for not carrying it.