One of the darkest things a person with unhealed trauma will do is actively sabotage a peaceful relationship just to feel a sense of control.
When you grow up in chaotic environments, peace feels like a trap. You are constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop, and the suspense becomes agonizing. To relieve that anxiety, you will subconsciously pick a fight, create a massive issue out of thin air, or push your partner away. You blow up the relationship yourself because navigating a disaster you created feels much safer and more familiar than navigating a peace you don't know how to trust.
As someone who works with younger people, I say this out of love. A lot of older artists, across mediums, cant connect with younger people due to lack of literacy, comprehension, critical thinking, and even imagination.
Kelli crying about her money issues and we saw her buy that baby 17 designer handbags just last season….. and now this season she got a man who is willing to give her $70k and she’s using it for her teeth…… and not her failing business.
We all have choices #RHOA
Whether you like her or not, you can’t deny that Drew is a great housewife! What housewife is willingly throwing herself into the fire, meeting up with two women that don’t like her? And with NO BACKUP? Drew had shown time again that she can & will stand on her own! #RHOA