My girlfriend once told me something during an argument that I never forgot.
She said, âYou always tell me to talk to you when something hurts me, but whenever I do, you defend your intentions instead of trying to understand why I was hurt.â
âYou donât have to agree with every feeling I have. But you should care enough to acknowledge it. Your intentions may explain why you did something, but they donât erase the impact it had on me.â
Then she said something that stayed with me:
my mom once told me âaccountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms othersâ and that shit is real.
No one is saying the company made things up.
The point is that alleging something and proving it are two different things. Momentum is entitled to make its allegations, and the defendant is equally entitled to challenge them.
Thatâs why we have a trial, to determine whether the commission was indeed not payable and whether she knew she wasnât entitled to it. Until then, theyâre allegations, not findings.
Youâre reading words into the document that arenât there. Paragraph 15 says she submitted or caused the claim to be submitted. It does not say she knowingly submitted a false claim. Whether she knew she wasnât entitled to the commission is exactly what the court must determine. Thatâs why allegations are tested by evidence, not assumed as fact.
Bruh, thatâs a completely different scenario.
Finding N$400,000 mistakenly deposited into your account and knowingly spending it can amount to a criminal offence because there are elements of dishonest appropriation.
This case is different. According to Momentumâs own court papers, the issue is that the commission was paid under a mistaken belief that she was entitled to it. That means the company says it believed she qualified for the commission, and it later concluded that she didnât. Thatâs why it is suing to recover the money in a civil court.
And before anyone says the mistaken belief was only on the employerâs side, we donât know that. The defendant may very well have believed she was entitled to the commission too. Thatâs exactly what the court will determine after hearing both sides.
Also, âforget payback and simply get you locked upâ is incorrect, a court can order compensation under section 300 of the Criminal Procedure Act after a criminal conviction. But thatâs only where a criminal offence has been proved. In this matter, Momentum has not pleaded theft or fraud. It has pleaded unjustified enrichment and repayment of money allegedly paid by mistake. Those are civil claims, not criminal charges.
So comparing this case to someone intentionally spending money accidentally deposited into their bank account isnât comparing like with like. The legal issues are different.
Oshili we lack understanding megulu moâŚ.. or maybe we just donât like reading. The document does not accuse her of theft or fraud. Instead, it says the money was paid under a âmistaken beliefâ that she was entitled to it. So howâs sheâs a criminal?
I hope and wish she wins this case.
People can damage your image, criticize your personality, and spread rumours about you, but they can never take away your good deeds. No matter how they describe you, you will always be admired by people who know you best.
Until you evolve, unlearn, relearn, and realize that women of this generation will not endure the bad treatments many of your mothers endured in the hands of your fathers, yâall will keep having failed marriages.
No disrespect, but I would never recommend motherhood.
And before yâall come for me đ Iâm a mother.
If someone told me they were thinking about having a baby, my first question would be: âNow why tf would you do that?!â đ¤Łđ
I love my child with my whole heart but recommending motherhood and surviving motherhood are two very different things.
iâm grateful for the beautiful person you are in my life. thank you for being my lover and my best friend. i vow to love you as long as the sun shines and the breeze blows. i will fiercely love you forever.
We all really have different priorities when it comes to money and lifestyle. Spending N$1 million on a wedding is personally something I could never imagine, but for those who can comfortably afford it, I completely understand.
I think where it becomes difficult is when people put themselves under financial pressure or debt just to fund a wedding. But at the end of the day, everyone values different things in life, and if it genuinely makes you happy, then thatâs your choice.
Yâall having a pic of a person with their ex is wild. You people are generational witches. Only explanation. Youâre put on earth straight from satans cloth đĽ˛