@666gorewh0re @vi0l3tgh0ul And this opens up a conversation about how fanpages are put on pedestals even though they are ordinary random people and how teens shouldnt have access to social media because it causes situations like these. Nocturnal just needs a proper irl friend.
@666gorewh0re @vi0l3tgh0ul Again I am not excusing Nocturnal's behaviour. But being "cancelled" doesn't encourage growing. :/ if they wont change making mobs of people hate them wont make them change either lol it makes them lash out harder because random teens arent made for publicity
@666gorewh0re @vi0l3tgh0ul Plus she believed she didn't need help with her mental health. Can't really do anything else except to let those people realise the help they need themselves
@666gorewh0re @vi0l3tgh0ul Overstepping boundaries is horrible. I had a friend who did it constantly. She had social issues, a very dysfunctional family and was very self conscious and had a need to get constant validation from people. I feel bad for her but cutting ties was the best option.
@vi0l3tgh0ul And maturing takes time so sadly it might be a while until they realise that they were wrong. After a huge fallout with a friend when I was 12 it took me 5 years to realise that I was also in the wrong๐ต
@vi0l3tgh0ul Sending people to harass you and doxx you? Now that's an issue. I must have missed it then. I'm sorry if it felt like I was finding excuses because doxxing is no small thing! And neither are death threats. I'm sorry that you have to deal with such things.
@vi0l3tgh0ul This situation is definitely not positive but I believe that people can become better especially since this isnt a case of a malicious adult grooming children. All power to the victims and I'm sorry I couldnt understand the extent of the situation as an outsider.
@vi0l3tgh0ul Nocturnal just needs proper friends outside of social media and help to their personal issues๐ they arent an adult so they still have time to mature and realise that their actions were bad๐ฏ
@vi0l3tgh0ul Sorry that it feels like I'm finding excuses but this situation doesnt seem as black and white as it seems so I was trying to decipher it. I apologise if I inserted my own experiences into it. Not blaming the victim at all and I'm sorry if they are still horrified.๐
@vi0l3tgh0ul This twitter format is horrifying. But oh now I understand the context of the image! Nocturnal just sounds like a friend who doesnt understand personal barriers which sucks. I had a friend like this and I cut ties because I couldnt stand it. Wouldnt really call it grooming tho๐ค
@vi0l3tgh0ul Sorry like I said I don't really get the context of the image. Who is who? Like no offense I just don't understand whats going on in the images๐ญ
@vi0l3tgh0ul I thought that this situation was more serious with a 20 year old grooming a bunch of teens. But It's just a mentally ill teen making bad decisions and people overblowing it into a bigger thing. Turning them into a villain is so much worse than encouraging them to get help๐ญ
@vi0l3tgh0ul I understand that they have a big platform but those actions scream "I have personal issues and have a hard time making friends I need attention" It's very sad but why make Nocturnal a villain for being a mentally ill teen and call them a groomer for it?
@vi0l3tgh0ul All good! I know how bad twitter can be but I want to view this whole situation as empathetically as possibly since I feel like social media forgets that every situation isn't as black and white as it seems๐
@vi0l3tgh0ul I don't know the extent of their bad behaviour but from what I've seen it reminds me a lot of how I acted on social media when I was 11 years old and had no other support other than validation from internet strangers. Hope that they get the support they need :(
@vi0l3tgh0ul Can you fill me up on the situation more? I've been a little close with Nocturnal recently and they just seem like a 14-18 year old struggling a lot with personal issues and social media is their only scapegoat. Idk I feel kinda bad more than anything๐ญ