Perhaps the most important reminder for most is that growth in any facet is predicated on discipline; which is an amalgamation of drive, consistency and diligence.
Lest we forget that the prophet (saw) informed us that “The most beloved deeds to Allah are those that are consistent even if small”
The difference between a parent and someone who has a child is that the former takes the responsibility of raising their child as an immeasurable blessing; the latter as a burdening task.
Sometimes when you’re in an extremely dark place, you’ve hit rock bottom and you feel like you’ve been buried - remind yourself, “I haven’t hit rock bottom, I’ve struck gold - I haven’t been buried, I’ve been planted” - Let the illumination begin! - SK
James Clear once said:
“You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.”
There is something magical and quite remarkable about ritualistic and sacred monotmy. Human beings aren’t individual actions, rather, our habits define us.
Many folks think of resolutions around this time of the year - habits, goals or activities that can optimize the self. What I’ve repeatedly taught my clients is not to “do” something to change your condition, but “become” the change.
One of the biggest resolutions for me, and I hope for a lot of people, is to distinguish between the cacophony of distractions vs. meaningful engagement.
Not all platforms are the same, not all voices are equivalent, not all books are devourable, not all actions are fruitful.
I am, at the Fed level, libertarian;
at the state level, Republican;
at the local level, Democrat;
and at the family and friends level, a socialist.
If that saying doesn’t convince you of the fatuousness of left vs. right labels, nothing will.
- Nassem Talib
"If you want to build a ship, don't drum up people to collect wood and don't assign them tasks and work, but rather teach them to long for the endless immensity of the sea" - Antoine De Saint Exupery
“A good book ... leaves you wanting to reread the book. A great book compels you to reread your own soul.” ― Richard Flanagan, The Narrow Road to the Deep North
The fact that the paradigm of the polymath (mastery of many subjects) has been lost to the idea of the ‘Jack of all trades’ (master of none) sums up how integrative education has been abandoned out of the modern belief that we can each have only one ‘specialism’/‘profession’...
Toynbee, after studying several civilizations, posited that civilizations rise to success due to the response of a creative minority that steer the civilization out of chaos, when this creative minority is unable to do this, the civilization crumbles. #Wisdom