Syeda Urwa

Falling down is an accident but staying down is a choice.....!!!!!

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Empathic listening involves
- listening with your ears to understand the words & sound
- listening with your eyes to assess the body language and behaviour
- listening with your heart to feel, sense & intuit
-listen with your right & left brain to understand the meaning of words

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Frustration is a function of our expectations.
And our expectations are a reflection of the social mirror.
Rather than our own values & priorities.

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No one can hurt you without your consent and no one can take away our self respect if we do not give it to them.
Next time, when someone says or does inconvenient thing to you. Ask yourself “ do I have the power to choose my response?”
And you will feel free!!

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If you remain patient & righteous at the time of hardship, He surely ease it & gives you happiness that you forget the bitterness of pain. Be grateful & positive for #anything you have. He will grant you everything you desire.
#experienced ❤

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Everything in this world bow & should bow before Allah; our desires:that must be compromised for His order & our eyes:that must shed tears in His love. He is one who allows sinners to talk to Him,share their pain with Him & He hears them & grants them all the unmerited blessings.

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Asking something from creation
Unlikely to get it/get best thing we desire & deserve
Humiliation & pain
Sin of preferring creation over Creator & doubt His capabilities.
But asking from Creator
100%Certainty of providing best thing & rank from the sources u have never thought of

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Realising sins is a blessing & saves us from hard penalty but it delays the provision of the blessings written in our taqdeer.If we start analysing our comitted sins,our hearts'd bleed but Allah is so merciful that He veils our sins & does'nt humiliate us in front of His Creation

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Sometimes lil things,actions, goodness,manners or ethics,that we think does'nt even carry the existance value,matters alot for someone.They elevate or degarde the element of respect in hearts of people,teaches a lesson & impacts a society in a far better way any preaching coulddo

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When All Azans call towards same God then y is'nt it possible for Muslims to get united at 1? This fight results in the contradiction of all the voices & decreases the beauty, understanding & esteem of Azan. Is'nt it a sin?Allah wants peace & unity.What would He think about us?

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Self confidence is weapon that makes you anything u want (attractive, singer, artist etc) even if u r not. Your self confidence makes you confident too & this confidence decides where you are going to stand in your life.
#taketheinitiativetoday
#doanythingbutwithconfidence

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Ur family is just like a shelter to u even if u get irritated & annoyed by them on many things. Yet they resemble to that AC that is old & worn out but still manages to provide u comfort. And this is the irreplaceable blessing of Allah
When u live without this shelter, u value it

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@Mohtermalaila @NokriDeDeKoi Good idea 👍

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Observe the cycle of Sun & shapes of Moon.
•They rise slowly.
•Then reach peak point/at their best.
•& finally starts declining
Just like humans, in their old age, they start behaving like kids.
ہر عروج کو زوال ہے
So y not facilitate the creations of Allah to please Creator?

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How to get ur دلی مراد fullfilled as per Quran

1) Namaz
2) Zakat/Sadqa etc
3) Follow the teachings of ur Lord

How to spot out the منافقین.

1) All those creating فساد
2) And say they r just correcting people
3) Does backbiting & stuff
4) And deny straight at ur face

#FigureOut

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#love خدا کی عبادت #adore
_U happily r ready to do whatever ur lover asks u.
_U mold urself for the love of ur lover.
_U go for meetups in ur best.
_U feel happy & love to talk to ur lover.
_U trust ur lover blindly
_Even if u get hurt by, u still love ur lover
#RestRelateUrself

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"مال اور اولاد کے پیچھے اپنے رب کو نہ بھول جاو"
Ur wealth & children are a test for u.
Means u should'nt involve in bad for the sake of money & for the good of ur children
Allah checks ur intents/actions whether u act according to His teachings with regard to these grants or not

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The only دعا that is acceptable is, the one straight from ur heart.
So whenever ur #any emotions are at their peak, #PRAY.
Because merely words does'nt carry any value.
Also pray #ForUrself when u see other people in trouble or happy since ;
PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE.

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Be careful with the choices u ask help from.
Out of all the creations, human beings have most of the authorities.
And see the incapabilities of poor human that.....
ایک مکھی بھی خود پیدا نہیں کر سکتا اور اگر کوی مکھی کچھ چین کے لے جاے تو اسے روک بھی نہیں سکتا.(AL QURAN)
#Think

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Sometimes Allah delays the Prayer, because He likes the way u ask Him.
Sometimes Allah gives everything to disliked ones because He wants to give them time & space.
#Totestustoo
Sometimes مصلیحت lies in #acceptingthePrayer
sometimes #rejectingit
sometimes #hiddeninDua (ask & get)

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Similarly عشق possess 4 stages

 پہلی منزل: Words only/commitment
sometimes with empty heart
دوسری منزل: Commitment but with heavy heart
تیسری منزل: Commitment by heart but easily divertable by anyone's whisper
آخری منزل: Commitment by words & heart and love runs in blood & soul