Value yourself more highly than those who demonstrate no kindness towards you. That is often the first step in learning how to build good boundaries and then to defend them. You are not a doormat.
When you tell me your name/pronouns, that's what I'll call you. If you previously used a different name/pronoun, that's in the past. If your name/pronouns change in the future, I'll adjust immediately. I'd be quite annoyed to be called Ensign Picard. Respect is easy when we care.
@hillybillybaker For the size of the bird, the eggs are rather small. Leghorns produce large eggs consistently, but are a bit smaller in size than Brahmas.