Honestly what is this new avoidant attachment wave, back in the day we called ppl fucked up horrible ppl and kept it pushing. Aint no need to analyze a horrible mf to know they horrible!
People don’t actually KNOW themselves. They know the version of themselves they’ve created in their heads and the image they try to portray to everybody else. That’s why victim mentality is so common.
People do not wanna be in reciprocal relationships. They only wanna receive and I’m tired of that gluttony and self centered energy in connection. Everything has to be mutual