@Literariium Love is one of the most beautiful things in this universe. Just sitting together listening to each other, understanding each other and slowly discovering each other's inner World. When love goes that deep, two soul almost become one. And that's something truly beautiful
Maybe because they see endless possibilities in life and have ambitions that go beyond the ordinary. Finding someone who truly understands their world isn't easy. And perhaps another reason is that even in love, they try to understand everything instead of simply feeling it. They overthink things that sometimes need no explanation. Love is not always meant to be analysed sometimes it just need to be felt maybe that's why so many intelligent people remain single one of this reason
I'm trying to do the same. No matter how difficult things get, j try to keep my surroundings and the energy around me positive. I don't know how everything will turn out, but I hope these little efforts, thoughts and positive vibrations crete something meaningful over time. Maybe one day, we'll see the impact of all these little things
And the best part is none of this costs much a walk in the sun, a good laugh, one page of writing at night, a proper sleep, we keep looking for some big secret to feel better but the brain just wants bthe simple things we stopped doing. I started feeling lighter when I stopped scrolling first thing in the morning and just sat in the sun for ten minutes. Try it for one week and see
DESIGN YOUR WINNING IDENTITY. THEN START LIVING AS THAT PERSON.
Get crystal clear about who you want to become and what you want your life to look like.
Don't just say you want to be successful, confident, wealthy, or disciplined. That's too vague.
Get brutally specific.
Ask yourself
โ How does the highest version of me think, feel, and behave?
โ How does that person start their morning and structure their day?
โ What standards do they refuse to compromise on?
โ How do they handle rejection, failure, pressure, and uncertainty?
โ How do they speak, walk, dress, and carry themselves?
โ What habits do they practice daily, even when they don't feel motivated?
โ What do they tolerate, and what do they no longer accept?
โ How do they manage their time, energy, relationships, and attention?
โ What decisions do they make when nobody is watching?
Don't just imagine the results. Visualize the identity, the routines, the discipline, and the standards behind those results.
Write it all down. Make the picture so clear and vivid that you know exactly what you're working toward.
This isn't just a fantasy about your future. It's a blueprint for the person you're choosing to become.
Then start embodying that identity today.
Don't wait until you have money to act responsibly with money. Don't wait until you feel confident to practice courage. Don't wait until life becomes easier to develop discipline.
You don't need permission from the world to start changing yourself.
But remember acting as if you're already that person doesn't mean pretending to possess achievements you haven't earned. It means adopting the habits, decisions, and standards that move you toward them.
Every day, ask yourself
If I were already becoming the person I envision, what would I do next?
Then do it.
Your future identity becomes real through the choices you repeatedly make in the present.
Stop waiting to feel like that person. Start building the evidence that you are becoming them.
some people dont feel anything even when its their own mistake. they dont even think they need to explain. but some of us are clean hearted overthinkers or quiet introverts and we just want one person to listen. we think if they understand once then my heart will feel light. so we keep going back and begging them to hear us. and the other person gives no value no care and we get hurt again. every time you go you will come back with more pain. so stop expecting anything. say it one last time that enough i explained a lot and then walk away
Honestly life is just this. Problems will come and struggles Will come and yes it's easy to say keep hope but very hard to actually do it. Still I hold on to be one thing that whatever is around me will turn out good and this whole universe is quitetly working with me. Cry if you need to cry qs much as you want but then get up and walk again. Don't let sadness build a home inside you. Life can change any single day and one day you will smile thinking why did I ever want to give up
You have a deep interest in understanding human nature. You enjoy building in solitude, studying great thinkers, and questioning everything. You think deeply, recognize patterns that others often overlook, and find meaning in ideas that most people never try to understand.
You're drawn to psychology, consciousness, philosophy, metacognition, and the hidden aspects of the mind. You're constantly learning, observing, connecting different ideas, and trying to understand the reality that lies beneath the surface. Intellectual freedom, self mastery, and turning your thoughts into something meaningful matter to you. You don't just want to follow the world. You want to understand it, challenge its assumptions, and build something of your own.
If these ideas feel familiar, youโre probably someone who sees life not merely as something to live, but as an endless journey of discovery, understanding, and self evolution.
@Literariium Love is one of the most beautiful things in this universe. Just sitting together listening to each other, understanding each other and slowly discovering each other's inner World. When love goes that deep, two soul almost become one. And that's something truly beautiful
The interesting thing is that enlightenment doesn't necessarily mean finding all the answers. Sometimes it's about losing the need to have answers for everything. The moment you stop protecting your Old identity and start questioning even you deepest belief, something within you begins to change that's a journey not evryone is ready for
@RumiArab There is another side to this. Being comfortable with your own company is also a kind of relationship, and perhaps the most important one. When you understand yourself, being alone doesn't always feel like loneliness
If we want to make life truly alive, many living problems will arise. And they should. But if we want to make life lifeless, we may be able to eliminate all our problems, but then we will live like dead people.
Read this story carefully. A little flower and its one simple wish may help you understand something about life that many of us fail to understand even after living for years.
Once, in a garden, there lived a tiny grass flower, hidden behind a wall and surrounded by bricks. Nearby, there were rose plants. The little grass flower was very safe. Storms came, but the bricks protected it from being hurt. The sun rose, but its heat could not trouble it. Rain fell, but it could not knock the flower down because it was already sheltered close to the ground.
One night, the little grass flower prayed to God, How long will I remain just a grass flower? If you have even a little kindness for me, please make me a rose. God tried to explain to it, Don't get into this trouble. Being a rose comes with great difficulties.
When storms arrive, even the roots of roses begin to shake and come loose. When a rose blooms, someone may pluck it before it even gets the chance to fully blossom. And when the rain comes, its petals scatter and fall to the ground.
Don't get into all this trouble. You are safe where you are. But the little grass flower replied, I have lived safely for long enough. Now I want to experience some trouble too. I want to speak to the sun, fight the storms and face the rain. Please make me a rose, even if it's just for one day, just twenty four hours.
The other grass flowers around it also tried to convince it.
Don't be foolish. We have heard stories of our ancestors who made the same mistake and suffered greatly. Our experience tells us that we are perfectly happy where we are. The sunlight doesn't trouble us, the rain doesn't trouble us, and the storms cannot even touch us."
But the little flower refused to listen. Finally, God granted its wish, and the next morning it became a rose. And its troubles began almost immediately. Strong winds started blowing. Every part of its body trembled. Its roots began to loosen. The grass flowers hiding behind the bricks looked at it and said, "Look at this fool! Now suffer the consequences.
By noon, the sun became intense. The rose petals began to wither. Then came the rain, and its petals started falling one by one. By evening, the rain became so heavy that its roots were pulled out and the rose plant fell to the ground.
When the grass flowers saw it lying there, they said, Fool! We warned you. You wasted your life for nothing. We had our old comfort and our familiar difficulties, but we were used to them. Everything was fine. But the dying rose had something to say. It said Fools, I would still tell you the same thing. Living as a grass flower hidden behind bricks for an entire lifetime is nothing compared to becoming a rose and truly living, even if only for twentyfour hours. I have found my soul. I have fought the storms. I have met the sun. I have struggled with the winds.I am not simply dying. I am dying after truly living.
You are living while already dead.
The real question in life is not how safely you have lived, but how much of life you have actually experienced. If we want to make life truly alive, many living problems will arise. And they should. But if we want to make life lifeless, we may eliminate all our problems, only to find ourselves living like dead people.
Sometimes, there is a huge difference between staying safe and truly living.
People suffer because they expect too much life. They imagine a certain life for themselves, but when things don't happen the way they wanted, they break down . I've seen many people struggle because life didn't turn out the way they had imagined. That's why I feel we should learn to flow with life, with it's natural current, instead of constantly fighting against it. The more we resist life, the more we make things difficult for ourselves.
Who Is God, According to the Upanishads? The Answer Might Change How You See Reality
If I ask you who God is, you might think of Shiva, Vishnu, or Krishna. But some of the deepest teachings of the Upanishads point toward something far more profound: Brahman, the ultimate reality that lies beneath everything we see and experience.
Brahman is not simply a deity sitting somewhere in heaven, ruling over the universe. It is the very foundation of existence, the reality from which everything emerges, in which everything exists, and beyond which nothing can be understood. The Upanishads suggest that this ultimate reality cannot be fully described through words or concepts. Everything we try to define has its limitations, but how can something infinite ever be confined within language? This is where the idea of Neti, Neti becomes important. It means โnot this, not this. Instead of trying to define the ultimate reality through a particular image or belief, it encourages us to move beyond every limited understanding of it.
Indian philosophical traditions also use the expression Sat-Chit-Ananda to describe the nature of Brahman. Sat means pure existence or ultimate truth, something that remains beyond temporary appearances. Chit means consciousness or awareness, pointing toward the deepest nature of knowing and experiencing. Ananda means bliss or fullness, not the temporary happiness we feel when something goes our way, but a deeper sense of completeness. And then comes one of the most profound ideas in Advaita Vedanta. What if the deepest reality of your existence is not separate from Brahman?
The famous teaching Tat Tvam Asi means That Thou Art. According to Advaita Vedanta, it points toward the essential identity of Atman, the deepest Self, and Brahman, the ultimate reality. In this understanding, discovering truth is not about travelling somewhere to find God. It is about realizing the true nature of reality and your own deepest Self. Advaita Vedanta suggests that the separation we experience between ourselves and ultimate reality comes from not understanding our true nature. We tend to identify ourselves with our bodies, thoughts, emotions, and personal identities, but self-realization is about seeing beyond these limited identifications and recognizing the deeper reality that lies beneath them.
Perhaps the real question is not simply who God is, but what the true nature of the one searching for God actually is. The Upanishads invite us to look beyond appearances and our limited understanding of existence, not merely to believe in ultimate reality, but to inquire into it and realize it.
Some journey's in life are not meant to take us to a destination, but to reveal the true' nature of the people around us. Along the way, we realize that some people Walk beside us and become our own, while other's leave halfway, teaching us lessons we might never have learned otherwise. And sometimes, those lessons stay with us longer than the journey itself.
I believe we are taught from childhood to care for others, be kind and always try to be good to evryone. But very few people teach us that loving ourselves, standing up for our own interests, and setting boundaries are equally important. There is a big difference between being kind allowing other's to take advantage of your kindness. Your goodness is truly beautiful only when it also leaves room for your own self respect and happiness. We need to learn not only how to be good to others, but also how to be fair and compassionate towards ourselves.
The problem goes deeper than that. There are good people in this world, but history has shown us how often people who try to spread truth, love and compassion are rejected by the very society they want to awaken. Even after so much evolution, humans can still be incredibly cruel. Sometimes nature seems to have more harmony than humanity itself