I wan teach you how to catch fish, you say make I give you inside the one wey I use my hook and bait catch?? ๐
You see say na why dem de always use you as bait ๐ซต๐ผ๐คทโโ๏ธ
@officialke2ho@Maya_leeke If you dig it well, people who have money like you described, don't go to the kind of crusades we are talking about, they are either going seminars, conferences, one way or the other its a way of extending business hands. Can we say that for the poor masses??
Somebody said under this post, that "its the God designed way". Was that the only thing God designed women for? Most women who she mentioned that were chased in the bible were women who one way or another already had names or something going for them,
Women are really smarter than we give them credit for. ๐
Everything they do for a man, or anything concerning a man, seems to come with a carefully worded set of conditions. โIf I genuinely love him.โ โWhen Iโm comfortable with him.โ โIf he makes me feel safe.โ โWhen I know his intentions are genuine.โ โIf he proves that he deserves it.โ โWhen I feel emotionally connected to him.โ โIf he treats me well.โ โWhen he has earned my trust.โ โMen are initiators; women are reciprocators.โ
There is always a prerequisite, a condition, or a threshold that has to be crossed before the woman is expected to give anything. You have to love your man before you spoil him. You have to feel safe before you open up. You have to trust him before you become vulnerable. You have to be comfortable before you start going out of your way for him.
Yet somehow, a man who has just met you, exchanged numbers with you, and started talking to you is expected to start demonstrating โintentionalityโ immediately. He is expected to spend, pursue, plan, prove his seriousness, show consistency, and make you feel special before he has even been given enough time or opportunity to establish whether there is anything worth investing in. ๐๐๐
The asymmetry is fascinating. The womanโs effort is often presented as something a man must first earn, while the manโs effort is treated as something he should demonstrate from the very beginning.
God sees all. ๐
In your dark times, you choose what's most important to you.
Your attention, your commitment, and your sacrifice.
It's not worth it, if you don't see value in it.
I've never been more vulnerable in my life than now, yet feeling so empowered.
I've lost everything and have nothing, but also about to gain a greater thing.
Life has never been so clear yet very blurry, just needed to focus.