you only think they're right because you don't see victims of us military as humans and therefore believe your own comfort to be inherently above their lives
it's not even just your abusive mother you had to deal with, it was all the other adults who knew they could mistreat you when she wasn't around cause they knew she wasn't gonna go out of her way to defend you
it’s great we’re finally acknowledging that responding to someone’s vulnerability with “do the inner work,” “go to therapy” and “heal your trauma” is passive aggressive mean girl shit
I sometimes hate my country of California and am reminded that Reagan, Nixon, and Stephen Miller all come from this place. We really produce some of the most evil reactionary politics that get solid to people in a nice suit
Love how the discourse du jour is reminding women who struggle with making friends that there is something wrong with them as if we don’t already know that lol!
(Austin Powers game tutorial level)
Austin: Wait a tick. When’s the last time I opened my shag bag?
Basil: Good thinking, Austin! Why not press ⭕️ and check your inventory?
Austin: I do pride myself in pressing the right buttons, don’t I? YEAH, BABY.
husband trapped the cat under an upside down laundry basket while playing and she just laid down and started purring really loudly. not only complicit in her own oppression but satisfied by it. sad
When people say “you need to just unlearn your trauma and go to therapy, you’re an adult” they seem to think there’s a magical therapy switch where you go to therapy and within 180 days you just become a more socially acceptable person that’s released their baggage