@hcandersenkin I'd say in England, we're generally aware of school shootings but not to the point of knowing specific ones and all the details. Columbine stands out because it's one of the big ones, but I'm not sure the average person would know much more than the basic stuff
@hcandersenkin Yeah, if he's that paranoid of being cancelled for actions in past relationships that's a massive red flag. There's no smoke without fire
@hcandersenkin It might come down to personal definitions and labelling
Personally, I think masochism falls easier into being a bottom, but it's not inherent
Like while you're doing whatever act to your partner, you could tell them to bite your neck or whatever pain you're into
@hcandersenkin I'm glad you're digging your heels in on this. You've given him more than enough chances and he's still keeping it up. You're well within your right to say enough is enough
@hcandersenkin People are obsessed with trying to fix things that aren't broken and making stuff worse in the process
Every twitter update makes the platform worse. It's lunacy
@hcandersenkin Idk how helpful or practical it would be, but could you get someone you know to message for you? Like you type what you want to say and they click send for you
And you could run your wording by them for reassurance
@hcandersenkin It's honestly really shit you're having to do that
I'm trying to not be too mean about a person I don't know, but you shouldn't have to put up with that
@hcandersenkin Tbh that message is probably a good way out
It makes it pretty clear you don't want to continue/ you're uncomfortable working with him but it's not blatantly rude or harsh
I hope you can enjoy your time without this weighing on you