-My money is my money. His money is our money.
- I want a man withba provider fetish.
- It is a man's duty to provide. As a woman, I'll contribute my little when I want.
- No dey chook eye for woman money.
- A woman will disrespect you if you ask her to carry financial responsibility
- Unless he doesn't love you, a man that loves you want to provide for you. He doesn't need your money.
It is better to be single or to marry an actual road side mad woman, than any woman with this belief. At least, the mad woman is actually mad. The ones above are choosing to be mad and deliberately obtuse. All of them are openly or covertly telling you that money is more important than their relationship with you. Nobody is more dangerous than a person like that.
If any of the points confuses you, I'll explain.
Today, I experienced one of the most traumatic moments of my life.
I had gone to a friend’s place to lend him my MacBook charger because I stay in Ikorodu his charger had stopped working. After leaving his place and heading home, I was stopped by men who identified themselves as Nigerian police officers. They were not dressed in standard police uniforms, which made the situation even more frightening.
I was forcefully pushed into my car, accused of being a cultist without any evidence, and subjected to intimidation. My phone was searched, I was threatened, and I was repeatedly told that if I did not cooperate, I would be shot, killed, or have my car taken away.
They drove me around to different locations, including from Ikorodu to ketu under a bridge, while continuing to threaten me. Under fear for my life, I was forced to open my banking apps and make transfers. In total, about ₦700,000 was taken from my account through coercion. They wanted me to pay them 5 million which I don’t even have, They also forced me to call friends and demand money from them, insisting that I raise millions of naira despite having committed no crime.
This was not a voluntary transaction. Every action I took was because I genuinely feared for my life.
I am sharing this video because no Nigerian should have to experience this. No one should be threatened with weapons, intimidated, or forced to hand over their hard earned money by people who are supposed to protect them.
I am reporting this incident to the appropriate authorities and financial institutions, and I hope those responsible are identified and held accountable.
Please help me by sharing this until it reaches the right people. This has to stop.
@LagospoliceNG@BenHundeyin@PoliceNG@AbimbolaShotayo@TunjiDisu1
This is DV!!!
So many men go through this in their marriages and suffër in silence because they’re afraid nobody will believe them.
This woman needs to be arrestëd!
Get a hair cut every 2 weeks .
Buy new set of boxers
Buy some polo and shirt
Make sure you have atleast 5 footwear
Have atleast 2 perfumes
Use roll on (not antiperspirant)
Brush your teeth and scrub your tongue every morning
Drink a cup of water and push up daily
Make sure you use the toilet before going out in the morning.
always dress well no matter where you’re going.
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