Please date sweet men. Please date men who respect you in anger. Please date men who are soft spoken. Please date men who are patient with you. Please date men who respect their own bodies. Please date men that are kind to your soul. Please date men who have self-control
Girl to girl... being loved is the minimum. Make sure you're also valued, respected, prioritized, desired, heard, understood and supported.. and that you offer the same to your partner in return.
One random afternoon at Starbucks, while I was waiting for my coffee and scrolling on my phone, I overheard a group of moms talking at the table next to me. One of them said, “My oldest is already 26 and still doesn’t have a boyfriend.” Another smiled and replied, “Same here. Mine is 29 and doesn’t even seem interested.”
I got curious, so I kept listening while the barista called out orders.
Then one mom said, “It’s strange, right? Girls these days are so focused on their careers. They barely make time for dating.” Another answered, “They’re smart. They’ve seen how hard life is. They don’t want to struggle again.” And as I picked up my coffee, it all made sense.
Disgust is such a powerful emotion. Every time I have made a major shift, I was disgusted by something. That moment where you realise “I will never tolerate this again” and then everything just reorganises around that decision
i love it when a woman knows that life will turn out so good no matter what. i love a goddess who is aware of her divine right to have a beautiful life.
Finally, a woman said it out loud:
“If you’re texting my boyfriend, I assume he gave you his number.
If you’re calling him, I assume he called you first.
If you’re spending time with him, I assume he told you where to find him.
I hold him accountable for every conversation and every ounce of attention he gives.
I won’t disrespect another woman—she owes me nothing.
It’s my boyfriend’s responsibility to respect me.
A real man would never put me in a position to feel played or look foolish.”
This year I want to be so disgustingly loved!!!
I wanna be loved, kissed, desired!!!
I’m gonna be so loved out loud that I never doubt it!!
And It’s going to happen!!!