โNo one is forcing you to work at that job you hate.โ
I think you will find that the threat of starvation, homelessness, unpaid bills, and losing access to basic healthcare is fairly coercive.
Jobs need to understand that the only way to make me feel appreciated is to pay me what Iโm worth and increase my salary over time. No amount of โlunch on meโ or one-time bonuses is going to cut it.