@shewentothepark He was NOT a safe space. Reminder girls some abusers are obvious and some are very smart and good hurting you and covering their tracks at the same exact time.
@shewentothepark Even in bed he asked her again “why were you crying earlier” she had only explained 3 million times and said she felt tired and drained. No wonder she drank so much. Which he then took advantage of to push her boundaries in bed and now she has a tarnished reputation
@cherrikiii@wildestblues So don’t watch a show we generally like because there was a nasty creep on there - instead of shining a light on the problem? Smart. Smart.
@wildestblues She is cursed with “good girl training” combined w/ being drunk, she wasn’t able to stand up for herself and just say get out of my bed, stop making moves and don’t tarnishing my reputation. But she did everything politely she could to try and send that msg in small ways.
@wildestblues bed scene so gross. First of all she was drunk and he wasn’t. Second - her body language the whole time was pressed to her side of the bed. Her arm up in front of her face. And she was saying things like. “Are you drunk” “We should just go to sleep” “Why are you squirming to me”
@wildestblues He kept pressing her over and over about her feeling upset and confused - instead of changing the subject of trying to cheer her up. Even in bed. He said “why were you crying earlier” when she had explained it 30 times already. Was def shaming her and draining her. He’s just sly
@aidzzs She is the epitome of a pick me. And a narcissist. My dream scenario would be a throuple between her Toby and Chris because no one else should be subjected to their vile selves.
@Bbcanfan9@Shiikane@Safa81404029 People defending either fall for these narcissists irl and really need to educate themselves -because they are so easy to spot once you do-
Or you are defending because you are one yourself.
@Bbcanfan9@Shiikane@Safa81404029 Chris - instead of having empathy - he takes her hurt emotion and says - that hurt emotion - hurt me and goes off to make her look like a bad person for how she reacted to his shitty behavior. Which actually is the definition of a narcissist gaslighter. Sooo….
@Bbcanfan9@Shiikane@Safa81404029 when she fairly pied him he also nastily said “oh yeah water under the bridge huh?”
when he was the one who rejected her. And then rejected her attempt to make be the make ammeds . Every time u can hear the cold anger in his words. His nice guy mask slips.
@Bbcanfan9@Shiikane@Safa81404029 Add to that she tried to be the bigger person and bury the towel and he not only lied saying things were fine (when clearly he still felt disdain towards her) only to get brutal with her during games and recoupling. But -
@Shiikane People r defending him? He is amazing at charming people and acting like a good guy.
He acts super quirky to distract from his bad behaviors -
so people say “oh that’s just Chris”.
He’s so good at lawyering arguments to come off like he’s the victim.
@mindironalia The ones defending him are the same ones who date narcissists over and over again and can’t understand why they just can’t find a good guy. Those types b shape shifters and know how to play the charming guy /victim.
@BattleDad45 Ironic huh? You’re doing the same thing with our fire. The hypocritical lengths YALL will go to. Difference is that was one leftist guy (notice all the comments cheering were red not blue) where as this is how ya’ll act all the time
@BattleDad45@broadwaybabyto How uneducated can ya’ll be. The fire broke out in the wealthy neighborhood but spread to more than half of LA. That means middle class, poor, homeless. Even if they were rich (which they weren’t). A disabled man and his young son deserved to die?!