As you get older; it becomes glaringly clear that most of the people with money or ahead of you are not geniuses.
The people who are CEOs, the spenders on social media, and many many of the elected boy and girls โ a lot of them are just wildly average; most pastors are straight stupid.
Their superpower power is they kept going. They didnโt overthink. They didnโt wait to feel ready.
Smart people get trapped in their own heads. They analyze, hesitate, and eventually talk themselves out of action.
The โdumbโ ones? They donโt overthink enough to stop. They just build.
Just start!
Observation, as a male growing up north of Samora can get you ahead in almost every way in life BUT for the dating market, mwanakomana anofanirwa kudzidziswa pattern nevafana vepa ghetto. Ukaona ukati exposure ye Samora ne chigudo gudo chepa ghetto haaa une uri complete
As a woman, you need to understand one uncomfortable truth: to a man, love is secondary. Itโs respect that keeps him committed, lose that and no amount of โloveโ will save you.
The older I get, the more I just want to live a calm life. No drama, no fake friends, no need to be seen. Just living well, surrounded by people who genuinely love me.
Cutting people off isnโt always about hate or jealousy. Sometimes, itโs just a difference in mindsets. Some people lack loyalty, some are users, some drain your energy, and some are just two-faced. Not everyone wants to be around that.
When you choose a certain way of living, donโt impose it on others as if itโs the universal standard. Respect that everyone has their own path. Acceptance goes further than judgement.