all I can really do is show up as authentically as possible. if in every interaction I choose what would be considered growth for me, then I am doing the work. I can’t control how another responds or behaves. but I can choose to be direct, embody more love, face conflict, etc.
The abortion Craig and I had 22 years ago allowed us the time to become sober - and then to create careers and a healthy family. Our abortion saved our lives.