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Niceness means being polite, pleasing and kind.
You people changed it to being a mumu to validate why you don't want to be kind. You are simply not a good person. It has nothing to do with "niceness."
Niceness is a positive character attribute that everyone should have. It has never been a character defect. One person starts a wrong narrative and other people jumps on it without questioning or fact checking it. At least use a dictionary for once. Now more than half of you can't even define niceness. It happens with so many words on this app. Stop getting definitions from social media agenda. Many people don't know what they are saying. Use a dictionary.
If you are nice, kind or good to a person and they are ungrateful, it simply makes them an ingrate. If you're consistently nice, good, and kind to person who refuses to be grateful and reciprocate, that is your choice - a foolish choice but your choice nonetheless. It doesn't mean that kindness, niceness or goodness is a character flaw. It also doesn't mean you should stop being nice to other people because one person was an ingrate.
No, being continuously good and showing up for an ungrateful person is not the meaning of niceness. Stop abusing words you don't know the meaning.
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Let me guess... you're the first boy to ever treat her like a princess and showed her what real love is right?
Awwn....she'll never leave you and follow another guy, she promise
In some families, everyone sells what they have to support one person. Even the siblings' education are sacrificed. Those siblings would go look for any type of work to do - even the work that comes with humiliation, - and still send you money to support you.
If people are crying about black tax, you better keep quiet. You're a product of black tax yourself. Always know the family you come from. Don't let privileged people tell you about black tax.
People will tell you that "everybody will be alright even if you don't help." Na lie ooo. You would not have been alright if they didn't sacrifice for you. Ensure the people that looked after you are well looked after. Ensure your family can feed.
Some of you blew up as superstars in whatever field you delved into. You're the light in your family. Accept your reality. Money eaten alone is not sweet.
It’s when you start doing business with some of your friends you’ll realize why they’re poor.
These niggaz aren’t just hungry enough!
Give someone a task, and 48 hours pass, not even a word from them. Bro! LOL
SmH
This is a worldly advice. He is spending so much time on social media and absorbing worldly advice. It should not be coming from the pulpit. There is nothing wrong with being nice. Niceness is not a defect in character. People taking advantage of people's kindness is a worldly behaviour and advising people in church to stop being kind is not Christianly.
He should be telling the women in his church to be grateful for kindnesses and be kind themselve. He should also teach them to reciprocate kind gestures, while teaching them the folly of ingratitude. He should teach the men to be kind and if anyone should take them for granted for being kind, they should dust their feet off that person. We can't be bringing worldly advice into the church. Why are Pastors afraid to advise women snd tell them the truth?
If you frame kindness as niceness just to pass a worldly message, you're deceiving yourself. It is one and the same thing. Potato Potahto. Please don't tell me he said "dont be nice" not "don't be kind." We all know they mean he same thing. The resulting consequences would be a lack of kindness. You don't tell people not to be nice and still expect them to be kind. Kindness means to be considerate of others. Niceness means to be courteous and pleasant. What is the difference?
You cannot put a piece of live coal on a child's palm and ask him to carry it with care.
- Chinua Achebe
And be ye kind one to another, and tenderhearted.
- Eph 4:32
The family you don't spend money to look after, you'll still spend money to bury.
Some of you want to gather and gather, invest and invest, become multi-millionaires and billionaires before you start helping. The truth is, if you don't help when you have enough, you wont help when you're rich.
The problem is , you think you have time. One thing I know is that no amount of money will fill the gap of loss. I've seen it a number of times.
This is something we in the furniture and interior business can relate to. We visit clients’ homes, take measurements, inspect spaces, and sometimes travel to unfamiliar locations just to secure a job.
As much as we want to satisfy our customers and grow our businesses, we also pray for safety. Not every invitation is genuine, and not every person who calls with a job has good intentions.
May God protect every carpenter, furniture maker, electrician, plumber, interior designer, and every hardworking person who goes out daily to earn an honest living. May we never fall into the hands of those who want to harm us while we’re simply trying to feed our families. 🙏🏽
My guy win 1M for sporty as I quickly paste aza he sent me 15k
He said him sef don too lose money, so inside 1M na only 15k you go send for me
Thank God he sent it on my Opay, it was easy to send it back to him asap
I don’t make friends with ungrateful people.
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