You should be more of a diva, have higher standards, be insufferable about how much you love yourself, be a beacon of unbridled joy, show people what it means to truly believe in yourself, let them think your full of yourself, stay so immeasurably grateful for the blessing that is life itself.
Protecting your sexual energy goes a long way. When you’re gifted or creative your sexual energy is BOOMING and sharing this w the wrong person can ruin your life. Ppl who know how to manipulate energy can and will use this AGAINST YOU in the worst way. Their is no coincidence that ppl are addicted to your sex. You have ppl STALKING you. You have sex appeal OOZING from you when you’re not even doing anything. You can’t even talk to ppl w/o them thinking you’re flirting w them. You look at somebody and they feel like you undressed them. You are MULTI talented… that’s just sexual energy in motion. Yeah… protect that. It’s wicked out here.
Cutting ties with men who serve no meaningful purpose in my life, is liberation. I have no interest in entertaining casual connections with men who cannot do a single thing for me. Especially ones I’ve shared intimacy with in the past. No, we cannot be friends while I’m over here independently carrying all responsibilities and feeling burdened with meeting life’s complexities.
I am uninterested in casual exchanges, temporary pleasures, or half-hearted connections. Meet me with intention or don’t meet me at all.
You do not need to be in a relationship to have a fulfilling life. Some of y'all are so afraid of being alone that you'll entertain people who drain you just to have somebody around. Learn to enjoy your own company. Loneliness is temporary, but constantly abandoning yourself to keep somebody else is exhausting.
A magical woman should never be so obsessed with being chosen that she forgets she's the creator of her own experience. Get your money, develop your gifts, study yourself, travel, create and enjoy your life. Remember, romance is an addition.