I think the rule on men wearing a sports jersey with another man’s name on it is the player has to be older than you. Like it has to be the athlete you liked as a kid or something. A 47yo man wearing a 22yo dude’s name on his back is kinda gay.
Fraternity recruiting in the South is so bizarre to me. Formal recruitment profile? What is this… a sorority? At Midwest colleges, you just drink beers for free with a bunch of dudes and if those dudes enjoy drinking beers with you, BOOM you’re in.